I love my Man, but at a slight mistake he gets really mad at me, what do i do 4 him to believé im not cheating

Answer 1

Your man sounds like a bit of a bully. You sound like you have already started to blame yourself for his behaviour. Well hey, guess what, ITS NOT YOUR FAULT. He has no right to treat you so bad. YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG. Do not let him continue to bully you. Talk to him, he maybe feels insecure. Ask him to get help. If he is not prepared to try and change his attitude towards you then walk away. You deserve to be treated better.

Answer 2

There are two things you need to ask yourself: 1, why does he think I'm cheating? (Maybe you work late or he has seen you with another man, or you used to cheat on your ex's and he knows you are capable of it even if you aren't) So why would he think this way, then you can start to change whatever it was. 2, Is he cheating on you and he is trying to turn it around to you to take the attention off himself, or he has cheated before and can see some signs of the things he used to do.
The other things of course are that he could just be really jealous and not have any confidence or he may have some kind of illness - seriously, it may just be that he has took much sugar in his system and gets annoyed very easily, or too much coffee that gets him agitated, you get the brunt of it because your closest to him!?!?!?

Answer 3

It all depends on your relationships history.1-Have you ever cheated him before?if yes,it takes along time for men to get their confidence in their partner.
2-Has he been cheated before by any women?If yes then this may be the case too.
3-Is he a cheating bastard himself?because if you cheat you will easily think that others are also cheating you too easily.
4-How do show your love for him?this also matters.5-
have a word with him.communication is what you need to pinpoit the problem.
Good luck

Answer 4

Well if there's no trust it's pretty hard to maintain a healthy relationship isn't it? I think you need to sit him down and tell him that when he accuses you of cheating it hurts you very much as you feel as though he's suggesting you're a wh*re with no morals.

Maybe if you were to let him know that his accusations are really hurting you he may realise that it's wrong and won't do it again.

That's my thought but you know what he's like so maybe this won't work?

Answer 5

Whatever his underlying reason he still knows right behaviour from wrong behaviour. IT WON'T IMPROVE! If someone cannot accept someone else for who they are in all respects then that is their problem - do not make his problems your problem. No person either male or female should have to continually prove themselves innocent. No one should allow someone else to determine their mood. So you ask what to do ?. . . Get on with your own life and leave him and his accusations and your long line of defences behind you . . . before you lose your self-esteem , self confidence and strength of character.

Answer 6

Unfortunately there's nothing YOU can do, the problem is his,it will probably get worse my dear.
I don't know your situation but if you can - get out of the relationship asap.
He'll come up with every excuse to try and make you stay and will probably become nasty so make sure that your not alone with him when you break up.

Answer 7

Many guys are like this...he's just being overprotective. He may have reasons if you go out alot or if you have cheated on him in the past. Spend your time with him and give him lots of booty...that's all you can do.

Answer 8

baby, there is No eay answer to any realationship problems, as each case has different issues. like what is a mistake? sex with another guy? if you want to make him feel safe in your relationship, always talk nicely about him to evey other man you see, tell them how great he is, this will repel their desires for you. and also tell him too !OFTEN

Answer 9

couple things.
1. has he been hurt badly in past relationships. many times we act out that way when we fear you may treat us badly or like an ex did.

2. hes just one of those evil machismo chauvinist pigs, that don't know how to treat a woman. are you gorgeous and not meeting his behavioral standards...do your looks and behavior contradict one another?

Answer 10

Do what I did to my husband, tell him that since his put so much energy into convincing himself that your cheating that his going to have to use the same energy to convince himself that your not. And that your not going to play that game of having to prove your not for the rest of your life.Once you start having to prove it he'll never let you stop.