Is it possible for a daughter to be jealous of her own mother? My daughter is very attractive and she says I am pretty. But she treats me so crappy for no reason at all. She is at times down right mean to me.. I can't understand why she has such a poor behavior towards me.
2006-06-25 21:47:56 · 22 answers · asked by marseille l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think you have to be pretty egotistical to think that your daughter is jealous of you. Do all the boys at her school want to date you instead of your daughter? Do all her friends want to go shopping with you instead of your daughter, too? If she's behaving badly, maybe it's because you don't know how to connect with her. Thinking that she's jealous of you is not taking a step in the right direction...
2006-06-25 21:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by rattwagon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope you aren't basing your daughter's attitude toward you on your, or her, looks. If you are that may be the reason right there. I think you should look at the big picture. You are the adult here and you need to act like one. Children of certain ages often treat their parents badly. It may be due to situations in her personal life or it may be teen hormones. If your daughter is older than a teen you may want to seek counseling for both of you. Remember most teens rebel in one way or another.
2006-06-26 04:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by dracomullet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its possible,in my house it would never happen,even tho my mum is realllllly pretty and she look very young ,we always go shopping together ,we dress the same clothes-same style & im very proud 2have such a pretty mummy.Maybe yr daughter is still young and she will grow up soon and will start being porud how pretty is her mummy :)
2006-06-26 05:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Babygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would figure that it is most definitely possible. I remember dating this one girl many years back. She was 17 at the time, and her mother was about 36 from what I remember. Her mother was extremely attractive, and was very much flirty.
I always had a thing for her mother, and flirted back. I feel like calling her up to... um.... hang out!
2006-06-26 04:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by TORCH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey everything is possible.i,myself is a daughter sometimes i dont agree with my mum.but from young you should practice good relationship with your child.try a hug or a kiss to her from young that will probably boost your relationship with your daughter.you are probably being too strict to your daughter(how old is your daughter?).if she is below ten try hugging her, a hug will get your relationship with your daughter closer.if your daughter is a teenager,give her some freedom.try and negiogiate with her.for example give her a curfew time for her to go out with her friends,or tell her that if she done well for her exams you will buy her something that she likes like probably the latest pop/punk band cd.my mum does that with me.i think the best thing is negogiate with her,yups.but remind her that as a daughter she must respect her mum.treat her like your fren as let her treat you like one.try doing things that teenagers do with her and that will improve on your relationship.CHEERS.
with regards,
charrs:D.
2006-06-26 05:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's not jealous of you, maybe she's a teenager that her behavior influences by her peers and gets moody. talk to her nicely that you don't like her behavior towards you, have a heart to heart talk with her and take her out for a mom & daughter bonding so you'll have both a good time together.
2006-06-26 05:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by babypards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its not the fact that she jealous of you. It could be that there is a lack of communication in your relation (just hypothetically saying, not suggesting or assuming:). Maybe your daughter just has anger for example if she is being bullyied at school etc, she might find the only way she can release is being somewhat abusive to you.
2006-06-26 04:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is very possible, especially if she desires your attention but you are not giving it to her (not saying this is the case). If she is a young girl or a teenager, her mean behavior is probably just normal adolescent/teen behavior that almost all kids her age go through.
2006-06-26 04:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by ampotratz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, did you tell her she can't date, maybe she got asked out by a boy she likes and can't date him, or she can't ask out a boy she likes cause you said she can't. Those can be big problems. You could have done something to ruin her social life, like embaress her in front of a boy , her friends or her classmates. Think about if you where in her shoes for a day and she did exactly what you did. Then you might understand her.
2006-06-26 04:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by Pandora Tommorow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your daughter? What is your behavior towards her?
Do you act like a parent or a teenage friend? Kids don't need or want a parent acting like a teen or dressing like one. They need a parent. Maybe we need a little more info like ages and how you act.
2006-06-26 06:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by Mache 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋