Am i weird for this?

Question

I'm always wearing a black band t-shirt and a hoody and half my friends say i dont wear enough color while the other half who are goths dont say anything and i feel like i should start dressing more girly but i dont really want to. i like regular t-shirts but do i need more color?? im so confused lol!

Answer 1

Wear whatever you want.
Be who ever you are.
Never change your style for anybody.

You'll be so unhappy if you wear clothes that you feel uncomfortable in.
If you want to wear different clothes, for a change, you can try it, but if it feels wrong..don't continue it. Express youself in the clothes that you want to wear.

Answer 2

I don't think you are weird at all. You sound like you are still a teenager. When I was in high school, I did not dress really feminine and would also get crap for it. It doesn't matter how you dress its how well you do in school. I did good and now I dress really nice and I am able to buy the things that I could never afford back then. If you want to dress a little more girlie, then wear jeans and make your t-shirts a smaller size, but don't look like a groupie. If you want to still wear black , you can find cute shirts. Cargo capris pants are really cute also with sandals. Anyways, don't feel out of place, the best is wearing what you want so you feel good and not self-conscious. Good luck and hope this helps.

Answer 3

If you want to change for yourself but like the goth look then go with red. My sister-in-law is full goth and she will match a bright almost blood red shirt with black skirt or the other way around and if she goes total black(shirt and skirt) she will wear black and white stockings or black and red stockings
She has a really cute pair of pink and black ones also.

YOU still have a wide variety of color you can wear and still stay goth.
You even have quite a few lace shirts that are considered "goth"

MOST OF ALL DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!

Answer 4

You should look at why you only wear black. If it because you like the way it looks on you then you are not weird. If you are making a statement about yourself then you are not weird. If you had a different color shirt on would it change who you are? Having only one color to worry about makes it a lot simpler to get dressed and get out of the house. Also I have known other teenagers who only wore black and when they got older they started to have a very sophisticated wardrob including many styles and colors. Clothes are great to experiment with different looks and can easily be traded or thrown away when you want a change. Have fun with it.

Answer 5

if you're confused, it seems at least part of you is unsure whether you are wholly devoted to blandness.

if you're able, visit places where there is plenty of color -- autumn in New England is supposed to be pretty, but that may not appeal to your aesthetic taste.

it's better if you can perform such experimentation without any goth pals to whom you might feel obligated in some way, and you don't want to take along anyone that's trying to proselytize for color -- but you want someone available that's comfortable wearing colors, that can blend-in socially, that you can trust to give you honest answers.

personally, i like colors -- but i went through a period in which i wanted to wear basic black (sometimes with a very little grey). black still has a place in my wardrobe, but most of my stuff is a solid color or very conservative stripe. on the other hand, i've also got some "Hawaiian" shirts.

there are 2 types of comfort when it comes to clothes: the more obvious sort is how well the clothing is tailored to your physical form, the "feel" of the material, if it's close in the appropriate places and sufficiently roomy, etc.

all that is important when you're buying, and it is influential in whether you'll be able to pull off the presentation -- and that's where the more important version of comfort comes into play.

your clothes reflect what you think about yourself, and the colors and patterns you choose can influence your mood and the disposition (towards you) of those around you; therefore, how "comfortable you are in your clothes" strongly influences how you will be regarded by those around you.

pullovers are very similar to t-shirts and are available in attractive colors. most people won't take very seriously a dude wearing pasty and/or theatrical makeup "in public," so i'd caution you against devoting yourself to goth outside private gatherings of like-minded people.

regardless your clothing preference, always endeavor to appear neat and clean: personal physical hygiene both indicates and influences mental hygiene, which in turn influences spiritual hygiene.

don't use artificial scents to mask b.o. (not that you would, but it's always worth mentioning). exposure to sunlight is also helpful, as is physical exertion in the performance of some task or tasks.

Answer 6

I hope they are GC shirts :]] jk jk.

wear what you are comfortable in.
i'd love to wear mostly band t's and hoodies but my school has a dress code.

color is good sometimes but there is nothing wrong with the way you dress.

Answer 7

Wear a black shirt with a collar and add a colorful tie, repeat as needed.

Answer 8

I think you should wear whatever you want. I have experience being a person other people want me to be, including dressing the part and it sucks completely. Most people have a hard enough time finding their personal style, you're lucky to have a strong sense of self. Don't change for anyone!

Answer 9

black is a nice everyday color. honestly,.... there is nothing wrong with wearing black color everyday. i used to do it before. it is just that, some people probably do not understand that. black color clothing goes for every occasion. go with the color that you feel most comfortable wearing. do not force yourself into wearing other color clothes that you do not feel comfortable with. be yourself, it is the best!!!!! that's what makes all of us unique is when we have our own originality. i love black color clothes.:)

Answer 10

instead of worrying about them why don't you try doing what you want to do. Quit being a follower and be you.
Yes you are weird in answer to your question. I can look back if I had a decent body and was a girl I'd have some cute clothes and enjoy life. Get my nails done and be me....break the mold...swim up stream...dare to be different.