it doesn't make sense to me because we have a health sex life and looking at porn is very normal for him. I am on the verge of breaking up with him cuz i feel like he may have a sex disorder this decision is not just based on the fact that he's into porn but because of his sex habits. It may be that he's very active sexually but on the other side it's in excess. can someone give me their opinion
2006-06-25 20:40:00 · 15 answers · asked by disgusted 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, Here's my opinion....No, I don't think It's "normal'. Porn once in a while? Fine, Whatever. As a way of life? He has issues. And yes, There are plenty of guys who don't need this....If he is like this now, just think how bad it will get if you are silly enough to marry him. Listen to me and "follow your"....The rest are nonsense.
2006-06-25 20:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet that he just gets turned on by watching other peoples pleasure. Seeing some one have an orgasm can really turn somone on, if it doesnt for you and you dont want him to do this AS MUCH (if he really likes it hell still do it but you might be ableto get him to cut down) then i suggest you think os something he likes watching. If he likes to watch them dance, then try to dance for him or get really rough. Next time pretend your into the porn and really watch him to see what he likes best and do it. Then hell propbably do it less because you know what to do and how to do it that he doesnt care about porn, he just wants you...
2006-06-26 03:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal on both sides every guy is into porn in one shape or another and a good portion of women are grossed out by that, which in turn makes us watch that much porn because your grossed out and now were not getting any
2006-06-26 03:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by rockhound 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal to an extent if he is watching porn on a daily basis and pleases himself then he is an addict to it and that is not normal he should be pleased with what he has. But he may also be watching porn to learn a few things to try with you.
2006-06-26 03:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by rayjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Disgusted baby,
This is quite normal not only on boys but girls too.
A lot watch porn to satisfy their curiosity and the feeling of sexual pleasure.People are into it not intentionally but genetically.
If you dont like it then u may talk to him and convince that u dont like it, and atleast not do it when u r around. It doesent harm anyones sexual life.It may stimulate him and help him perform better..............................
2006-06-26 03:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by boom9849 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is the way to subconssiously express our deepest sexual fantasies its totally normal you should tell him to take it easy tho he could be a sex addict wich means he needs therapy.
2006-06-26 03:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Leviathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn teaches you sexual moves, he is probably doing it 4U. Don't break up with him for a silly reason like that, most men watch that kind of stuf
2006-06-26 03:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by Scatman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having healthy sexlife are goods signs of great companionship with ur partner...i don;t how many hrs u spent with him ..or what's ur libido ...or ur intersts in sexual action..
let me tell u..watching Xrated pics are kind of normal thing.. u better talk to him and must know about his sex habits.. and hisd intersts.. and try to be with him ..and do tell him that we need to do all other work which are more essntial just like sex..
as sex is part of life ...let it be a prt..only..
2006-06-26 03:49:51 · answer #8 · answered by sanjubuddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not that ur fiancee is a porn adict. its just because u know that he is , u feel upset. but i would say all male r addicted to that. dont feel deppresed jsut try to nderstand him. even if u opt for other male, he might be same.
2006-06-26 03:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by manishmalhotra25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont make a mistake by marrying him. Those are red flags. It will get worse if you marry him
2006-06-26 03:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by follow your dreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋