Im 19 going to be 20, she is around 30. Im a student worker, she is a counselor. We are both single. We work in the same office in college. I really started to like her, but what should I do? Should i avoid these feelings or go for it? Will she laugh at me or be intersted? What to do because I dont know
2006-06-25 20:11:59 · 18 answers · asked by Nas G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she will not laugh at you, Im nearly 40 and if some guy hit on me that was 20, Id be flattered. Give her a flower, tell her you think shes gorgeous. If she is single and not involved, she may like you as well. You are a legal adult now, and age is onyl a number...go for it! you never know the results :)
2006-06-25 20:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by 2girls of my own 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There really is no limit on age (after you're both 18). I had a lot of problems in my own mind when I started dating a man that was 3 years younger than me. I had serious doubts. What really makes a difference is your maturity level. If you're good friends already, there may be more in store for you. All you can do is take that leap and see what happens. The worse that could happen is that she'll tell you that she just wants to be friends. Then again, if you never let her know, you may end up losing out on the best relationship you could have had. It's up to you.
BTW.....I married that man. We've been together for 10 years. I still have doubts sometimes, but not in regards to his love for me or my love for him.
Good Luck!
2006-06-26 03:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by No one of consequence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally? I'd say go for it. That's just because I am a supporter of: Always giving everything a shot, not talking yourself out of your feelings. Whats the worst that can happen. Don't justify why it wouldnt work out. Go for it dude, Age isnt whats important, Maturity is. Good luck dude~
2006-06-26 03:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by Passionately Vulnerable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you found a comforting friend in her, the maturity we younger girls don't have, and that makes her attractive, or maybe it is actually real love, who knows?
tell her about your feelings, and ask her out one night, if she is mature enough, she won't laugh at you, if she doesn't accept, she'll reject you gracefully.... if she does accept you, don't worry, you're both single, there would be nothing wrong in that relationship... if people talks, whatever, enjoy your 15 minutes of gossip fame ;)
2006-06-26 03:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by ma_isa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should find someone more ur own age, cuz most older woman want someone older then them or around the same age cuz they like that man to have experiance!
2006-06-26 03:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by th4am 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 it she may be the 1
2006-06-26 03:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by brilliant blonde babe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. What if she's supposed to be 'the one' for you and you don't take that chanve? You will be questioning what would've happened for the rest of your life. If she laughs at you or just says 'no,' then it wasn't meant to be and you know that.
2006-06-26 03:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, sure... I know someone who was in your shoes and he asked her out and now they are married. Take the chance. Better knowing then pondering over the 'what ifs'. Best wishes.
2006-06-26 03:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares? if you like her then go for it.. age doesn't matter baby.. my bf is 15 years older than me, met him through webdatedotcom.. No reason to be afraid boy.. lol
2006-06-26 03:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by michelle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big fran thinks your a little man, and maybe should forget this plan.
2006-06-26 03:14:12 · answer #10 · answered by big_fran_aint_a_man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋