Should you really seek professional help if you haven't lost your virginity by age 25?

Question

Some crazy dude said that in response to another one of my questions.

That sounds a bit extreme. Some people are kinda kooky, but not me though.

There's this customer at work who comes in...kinda geeky guy with glasses...he scares the hell out of me. You can crack jokes and talk within earshot of him and he'll keep staring ahead. He doesn't even look down to think about it...

Now that dude is definitely a virgin in NEED of professional help.

I wasn't talking or making jokes about him...I was saying he seemed distant...

Answer 1

nah, sure its 10 years after the average but if ur happy with that, thats all tha matters

Answer 2

Why do you feel like you need someone's permission to remain a virgin? Now that customer at work sounds like he has more sense than you and has deliberately chosen to ignore your existence because you obviously have nothing intelligent or interesting to say. Maybe that is why you are still a virgin.

Answer 3

He could be autistic or have asbergers syndrome, even professional help doesn't do much for them.

Virginity in this case is an effect, not a couse. Professional help might be sought out depending on WHY you're still a vorgin. For religious reasons, professional help isn't going to cut it. because you're phobic of sex? A psychologist might be able to help with that.

Answer 4

I am a little bit lost with your question...but I am a blond...so forth that does not stop me from answering this question.

I hope you are not trying to hook him up with a prostitute...professional help, you know...because this kinda geeky guy might be waiting for special one, and give his virginity to his wife after marriage...Sex is the wonderful gift of God to married people...

All of us have some package, he just needs to find someone whose package goes with his...

Answer 5

No - it's a personal choice. Some people are religious and wait until they are married - and if they aren't married until they are 30 then they will still be a virgin. There is nothing wrong with that. It's a personal preference.

Answer 6

If you're twenty-five and waiting for marriage isn't important to you, but you're afraid of losing your virginity or having intimate relations with someone, then you should consider some counselling just to talk about what's on your mind. If you're comfortable with your decision, then there's no reason to see a counsellor.

Answer 7

what's wrong with being a virgin at 25? Everyone lives their life differently and some choose to remain virgins until marriage or until they find the right person.Not everyone is a slut that looses their virginity at a young age.

Answer 8

Virginity is something sacred that, once lost, can never be regained. If you have lost your virginity outside of marriage, you have thrown away something very precious.
Anyone can lose their virginity. It's the real challenge to keep it.

Answer 9

now i dunno bout professional help, but i dont see the harm in getting a hooker! jk... really though, in todays day and age, it is a lil odd to still be a virgin at 25. nothing to be ashamed of, mind you. i would say that if sex isnt important to a 25 year old virgin, good for them!!!! thats one less welfare mother, or sex craved male on the loose.

although.... you must have to pleasure yourself constantly!?!?!

Answer 10

IF that guy has any problems, it is none of your business. Why do you bother to bring him into this forum? Concentrate on more important issues. Try not to bring other people down.

Answer 11

No, I don't believe that not having sex is a mental affliction. And, I also believe you shouldn't make fun off that gentleman to take away from your own embarrassments. He probably gets more *** than all of us!