2006-06-25 19:10:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What I mean is what's the best way to flirt with a girl without making it TOO obvious that you like her?
2006-06-25 20:50:56 · update #1
Give her a lot of wordless, lingering looks.
Technically, it should take no less than 5 seconds. Also, you should try to catch her eyes and hold it, but don't let your eyes go immediately down on her body.
Effect: She will catch you staring at her. She will instantly avert her eyes somewhere else, but will look at you again to see if you're still checking her out. Of course, you will be looking at her looking at you. She will do this again and again if you continue. The more often you do this, the clearer the message will be.
If you talk to her, be friendly but try to be as ambiguous as possible by talking about current events or even, the weather!
(Does he like me? Doesn't he like me?)
This will drive her bananas!
You can smile at her a lot too.
2006-06-25 19:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by Siddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always recommend that you simply ask the person out, before it's to late or drives you crazy. It at least shows that you are serious. If they say no, then it is their loss. And if they say yes, then, well it can be the start of something beautiful. Asking them out via their friends is simply a cowardly way to do it. So go on, bite the bullet and ask her out! Good Luck!!!!
2006-06-25 19:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhmm, it would be a little difficult to flirt with a girl and not make it obvious, but if you're trying to go for subtle...try being more attentive to her, listening, joking around, making her laugh, just being very thoughtful.
2006-06-25 19:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by Sydney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with making it obvious? maybe she has a crush on you too and is just waiting for you to make the first move!
2006-06-25 19:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, dont find it that you want her, if you play games you might get into her friends zone and you never get anywhere. Flirt with her! nothing wrong with being obvious, let her know what you want be a man
2006-06-25 19:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by tampabayfriends 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is like most girls if u flirt w/her she won't think anything of it unless no guys ever talk to her or she wants to believe that u like her
2006-06-25 19:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to her and make her laugh. I know it's that simple.
2006-06-25 19:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by empowered2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start by talking about something you heard on t.v. or about the president or something like that. Then work your way up the list.
2006-06-25 19:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by Pandora Tommorow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, I thought that was the purpose of flirting.
2006-06-25 19:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you look at her look right into her eyes and smile
2006-06-25 19:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by ginger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋