I know she is very attracted to me and I am to her. I want to take the next step but I feel embarrassed to even think that I would be dating someone who is only 7-years older than my oldest child! I look significantly younger than my age (most people would say that I am 35) but that still is a huge age difference. What advice would to tell me if I were your best friend?
2006-06-25 18:48:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-25 18:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by bigfuckingcockinmypants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell you to go for it, you have to be very cautious though, to really know that she is comfortable with the age difference. Not all girls are, even if she is attracted to you, she might feel very self contious about your age and not be brave enough to embrace her feelings.
I have an uncle who is 30 years older than his wife, they married when she was only 19, after 10 years they are still together and they're one of the happiest couples I know, no one that knows them really notices the age difference, even when it is evident.
I wish you the best, younger girls rock! LOL
2006-06-26 01:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by rykkardo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a female whose dated a man over 15 years older than myself, (we actually lived together for 6 months), I say go for it, but tread slowly and carefully. Make sure that you have very open comunication because there will be problems that arise due to the age difference and you'll need to be able to talk them through. As long as your both willing to work at it, Best of Luck :)
2006-06-26 01:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by ldysimo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bring age into it you like her she likes you. Go for it I have never believed age should determine anything of the kind if you both have the same kinds of interests and are comfortable with each other why worry about what others may say.
2006-06-26 02:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by dncnrn7@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell you if she wants to take it a step further then go ahead as long as both of you all is ready yall grown and your kids should respect it because thas the choice you choose to make and she is grown and legal and yall is attracted to each other i say go for it
2006-06-26 01:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by meckadance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Bill Wyman of the Rolling Stones married an 18 year old when he was in his 50s. Those who are not for it will think you are a pervert. Those who are for it will think you are a stud.
2006-06-26 01:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by Mancha de Platano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age ain't nothin but a number.. right? its how you approach it? if she is attracted to you.. than you have to be da bigger person.see things from all aspects and angles. will she love in 5 years or 10 years? how will she accept ya children? is she the wife type? or only a girl to hit it and quit.. all those things are in question. thats my advice..
2006-06-26 01:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by isLand Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one says age don't matter. well it does. I'm 47 years old too and I'll tell you. I couldn't trust her. why. you ask. Well I been there and I have done that. not any more.
Good Luck
2006-06-26 01:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by bigjoe11a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is what? you are both adults and can make your choices as such my dad is 63 and has a girlfriend a year older than me(I'm 27) his rule is they can't be younger than his daughter he is the happiest i have seen him since my mom passaway I say go for it and enjoy life
2006-06-26 01:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by aeval_anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with it your both over the age of 18 alot of people would think so but who cares if you care about each other then **** what everybody else thinks
2006-06-26 01:55:33 · answer #10 · answered by samm5683 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT DO IT, NO MATTER WHAT!!!!! my dad cheated on my mom with a younger woman. He was 33 and she was 19--old enough to be my sister!!!
2006-06-26 01:53:53 · answer #11 · answered by Mercedes N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋