But the hard part is he really doesnt want to see you because if he does he will get so angrey, and he doesnt even really want to talk to you, so how can you get his trust back and to hopefully open up another chanse for you exspecially when he was your first love and you really need him in your life?
2006-06-25 18:45:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should of thought about all that before you lied to him and lost him forever. think before you act! u should no that if u lie then u will get caught so never lie cuz the truth will always come out in the open.
2006-06-25 18:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your current boyfriend has every motive to be concerned about your previous, considering that you may have recently ended a relationship with your ex-boyfriend, and now, you're concerned in a new relationship with anyone else. Sure, you've got continuously talked to him about your past relationships unless you may have turned blue in the face, however your boyfriend is giving you the improvement of a doubt. Due to the fact you are decided to reap your boyfriend's believe, use your actions rather of phrases. Show to him that you just don't seem to be staying in touch along with your ex-boyfriends, and that you have moved on with your lifestyles. Prove to him that he's the only man on your existence that you want to be with. Most significantly, your boyfriend wishes to discontinue evaluating himself to different men that you've dated in the past, because he is nothing like them, so there isn't any want for the competitors. If your boyfriend continues to keep interrogating you about your ex-boyfriends, there isn't any need for you to be with him if he can not trust you. You're losing your time maintaining a relationship with any person who's consistently having doubts about you, and you do not need to tolerate it. Relationships can not work with out believe, so it is as much as the two of you to take a look at and make things work.
2016-08-08 22:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by brinton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is very hard to establish, and once broken, even harder to repair. It can take years, if at all.
If he is still getting angry when he sees you, best stay out of his way. I doubt that you will ever get him back, as he will always have those nagging doubts about you, and there is nothing, absolutely nothing you can do, to remove those thoughts.
Its just too late now, so cry a little, cry a lot, and move on. And try to be better next time.
2006-06-25 18:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how u women gather courage to play with men's emotions.Playing with relationships is ur favourite sport,isn't it..? But then if u really realise ur mistake then I will suggest u one thing.Love is the best healing medicine in this world,try this medicine and make every thing clear with him.I Hope it works for u.
Good luck
2006-06-25 18:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to prove to him that you wont lie again it hard to show it right a way but its gone take some time so just take it step by step and do little romantic things for him until you think you have gained his trust again then dont lie to him again just keep everything real with him
2006-06-25 18:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by meckadance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't matter what you say. Only what you do to try and fix it. Trust is like a bank accout. Whenyou do somethind untrust worthy its like taking a big withdrawl it tke things happening a daily basis to regainand keep trust.
2006-06-25 18:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats very difficult, boys will stick to that and use that as a chance of letting go. I think hes falling out of love, coz if he really cares about you and love you he will give you a second chance. Try to please him in different ways, call him and sing for him, tell him your apology and will never do it again, try this everyday. But if hes really not interested in your explanation then i think its time for you to hit the road. Its really hard to take back trust especially in a relationship. but if you stll dont want to lose him then prove it to him how you love him, its all in your hands. but if it still not working..then sorry..first love dies...
2006-06-25 18:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by shaznay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just really depends on what you lied to him about. if you cheated on him or something like that and lied to him about it, there is no forgiveness, because if you didn't love him enough the first time not to do it you'll do it again. if it was about something else just give it time but don't bug him about it, he'll come around eventually and hear you out.
2006-06-25 19:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by the dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time to get over it...week at most...then let him know that you know you were in the wrong...tell him that you want to make it up to him...and don't stop till you get him to at least give you a chance...but don't go to far to the point he is pressing charges or anything :P
2006-06-25 18:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by nacirema14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult to gain anybody's trust back like that. Really difficult. Go with the flow, wait it out and he'll talk to you when he's ready to . Good luck!
2006-06-25 18:49:54 · answer #10 · answered by nippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋