My brother has been dating his girlfriend for about 1 1/2 years and I didn't like her from day one. She is not on the same level as him and I feel like they are bad for each other. He has a college degree and she has nothing. He owns his own business and she doesn't have a job. He comes from a good family and she doesn't. He is so love struck that he spends all his time with her and when I confront him he doesn't understand that he is with her 24/7. I don't want them to be together, what do I do? My parents also do not approve of the situation and if they ever got married I know inside it would cause a big problem between all of us. I want him to find a good girl who is good for him and is on the same level not some low class girl.
2006-06-25 18:43:12 · 8 answers · asked by Mike G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some of you people are a bunch of morons. I see why there are so many unsucessfully people out there. Class, color, and education level always matter when trying to make a perfect match. I guess people do not understand that due to our 50% divorce rate in America. Thanks to all of you who have your thoughts but for all your morons kiss my ***.
2006-06-26 10:04:26 · update #1
She's his girlfriend not yours. I'd say talk to your brother and if that doesnt work just back off.
2006-06-25 18:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by nippy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the social classes and education..etc. does she have a good heart, does she have a conscience? Is she a nice person ? Maybe she is a good person, because if she wasn`t I dont think your brother would stay with her for a year and half...Plus she is his girlfriend not yours, and when you have a girlfriend one day, or loving something u will start seeing it from your brothers point of view
2006-06-25 19:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by Armo-Fairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it -- your brother sounds like a big boy that can make his own decisions - bad or good. Just be around to pick up the pieces if it does all go wrong but don't say "I told you so."
2006-06-25 18:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by woodstock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mitr says....... don't oppose your brother directly.... you have to deal with this situation sensibly.... the more you try to ***** about her ion front of your brother, the more closer he will go to her and farther from you and family..... because of a simple reason that he loves her....
on the other hand, mitr says,.... does money, status and family background mean everything to you..???? what about your brothers happiness??? what if the girl is some one who is so good natured and so loving towards your brother, that even your brother cannot resist falling in love with her.....??? what if she is totally devoted to your brother??? what if irrespective of her family back grounds, she is too good a person??? irrespective of education, she is more experienced in life than anyone can be....???
think about it dude.... its your brother life... you can't force something on him as he is independant... if he is happy..... better amke yourself happy.....
2006-06-25 18:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by mitr_hamesha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say this but it really not your decision on who he should date, i know that you love your brother, but it his life,
and she make him happy that all that matter, the more you
push them together the stronger the bond going to get. just
back off . hopefully she love and respect your brother and wont
hurt him. but he not going to see anything right now.
2006-06-25 18:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by jazzsinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your brother's gf not yours and if ur brother is happy with her and he himself don care abt her status whether she is from low class, y do u wan to worry abt it. it's his life not yours. Let him do what will make his life happy. Don ruin ur brother's happiness just coz his gf is from low class.
2006-06-25 19:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you have a girlfriend, you will understand him, hey you sounded as if you are from a Royal Family, back off...your brother is haapy with her
2006-06-25 18:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by Freddie Kruger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SELF RIGHTUOIS SON OF A BYATCH HOW DARE YOU DECIDED WHO IS RIGHT FOR YOUR BROTHER SOUNDS TO ME LIKE SHE HAS MORE CLASS IN HER PINKY THAN YOU HAVE IN YOUR WHOLE BODY ITS NOT UP TO YOU WHO YOUR BROTHER LOVES YOU ARE NOT HIS KEEPER GET OFF OF YOUR HIGH HORSE AND LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE AND QUIT TRYING TO LIVE HIS FOR HIM!!!!!!
2006-06-25 18:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by jse3_1962 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋