i like this girl jess and we talk every night and we flirt but i dont no if i should tell her how i feel...?

Question

last time i told her how i feel she told me we were friends and she didnt talk to me for a while after that... i dont want to loss her.. wat should i do?

Answer 1

There is no full proof solution to your problem,as every person is different and reacts uniquely in a given situation. I have been in your situation more than once and I've tried different approaches, I have succeded in some and lost in others, so I am not a love guru, lol. I would think your safest bet would be to distance yourself for a little while, wihtout being rude or anything, just pretend to be busy with work, study, whatever, and see how she reacts. She might just realize that she needs you and can't afford losing you.

Anyhow, you may not get her to go out with you, but if it doesn't work, it is not like you put yourself in that spot again, so you can just go back to being her friend. You have to contemplate the fact that she might not be ready for a relationship with you.

I really hope it works out for you.

Answer 2

You have to confront him. Whats a relationship with no communication. The best way to go about it is tell him that you DO trust him, but when you saw him flirting with her infront of you , you became a little worried. Make sure you let him know that you dont mind him having friends that are girls, but just preferrably ones that hes not interested in. And if he happens to be interested in this girl, you maybe shouldnt be together :( . Make sure you get your point across, tell him you love him ;) and if the flirting continues, well you know what to do... Good luck! I hope it works out

Answer 3

If you talk with each other every night, and you flirt with each other, then you already know she likes you, right? Now, the question is, exactly what did you tell her? You want to be more than friends?

She's not ready for a commitment if she put the "cool it" treatment on the conversation. What you got to do now is repair the damage, let her know that you know and accept her terms for a friends only relationship. If you keep pushing for more than that, it's a certainty that she'll grow weary of your pursuit and end the chase.

Answer 4

Yeah u better tell her before it’s too late. But be cool, sweet and genuine. U don’t wanna lose her that’s rite but if she doesn’t wanna keep u then what’s the point? Just be honest and clear to urself that u gave a try and u confronted ur true feelings. All the best 

Answer 5

Tell her how you feel, you'll hurt yourself by not doing it. But realize that a relationship can only funtion it both people are going the same speed and the same direction. If she turns you down again, you need to either get over it or move away from that path entirely.

Answer 6

Dont push it just stay friends and keep giving little hints like taking her out and let her grow on you if she is really interested in you like dont but dont just come out and tell her again if she didnt talk to you for a long time last time just let her come on to you keep flirting harder and harder

Answer 7

Keep being friends with her, but don't stop living your life. Make sure you let her see your real personality and she may eventually fall for you. In the meantime, you may just happen to meet someone who returns your feelings and decide not to wait for her to see what a great guy you are.

Answer 8

Listen to what she told you in the first place. Don't push her. I think she made herself clear.
By doing this, maybe it could even turn in the way you want it to later. Maybe she just needs to take it slow and wait till she feels more ready!
Hope it all works out for you! :)

Answer 9

You could go at it the Highschool way and have someone else find out in a casual conversation if she likes you... Or you could tell her that it seems like she likes you, and tell her not to take it wrong and just tell her...

Answer 10

Find some one who wants u! just be friends and find a girl who is looking for love.