i was datin a guy for 3 months and he broke up wit me and a month goes by and we start back goin out and you know its good and then he breaks wit me again and he said that he wanted to be single and i told him i would wait for him and he said it would be a while and i told him i would still wait..... and he said that i didnt do nothing wrong this time that i was the perfect g/f but he just wanted to be single wat do i do..... i love soooooo much and i cant live witout him...... and he wont go back out wit me and i dont know wat to do..... i know he loves me too.... but how can i make him realize that..........?????????? the only thing i know to do is to kill myself and then he will realze it........ i dont know how else to make him realize it and i cant date anyone else either.....
2006-06-25 18:33:02 · 10 answers · asked by hesgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't NEED anyone that much, life is too important to put everything on the line for one person. If he was deserving of it then he would be with you. Do things that cheer you up, hand out with friends,ect... Good luck.
2006-06-25 18:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Is he seeing other women? This isn't a bad thing, really. From what you say, it could be that he realizes he is not ready for a long term commitment...he could be saving you from even greater heartache down the road. You may think he is "the one", but honestly that takes 2 people. If he isn't ready or willing to stay in a relationship with you, maybe it is time for you to not be available for him every time he comes back...it may make him realize what he'sgiving up too.
Good luck to you...and don't even mention killing yourself...its not the answer and is nothing to even toss out there as an option. You deserve more than that...especially from yourself!
2006-06-26 01:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by justmeagain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Killing yourself is a really stupid idea, so don't be stupid.
Now, this guy is just being an average guy. That means he wants to fool around with other girls, and doesn't want to be tied down. This is very common, and both genders do this. Don't let this ruin your life, move one, find someone who wants to be with you for who you are. I'm sure you are a wonderful person, full of passion and there are plenty of guys who want a woman like that. Please give youself another chance for happiness.
2006-06-26 01:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by natex14 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't kill yr self honey ...... just make him watch the worst movie of all time ... dungeons and dragons will do the job ...... take him to Dr. Phil, insult him on national televison .... get him beaten by some thugs and then reach there to save his sorry *** ...... make his life so miserable that he will having no other choice other then marrying you ........... if he still persist ...... then he maybe wants to stay gay for life .....
2006-06-26 01:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by djsouljay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a damn fool. No human being, no tragic event warrants the taking of ones own life. That's your pride speaking to you. Give it time and don't push the issue. It may be that when he doesn't see you acting crazy and begging that he will come to his senses and see you as a valued and pretty human being, and certainly worthy of his love. Let him breath, honey, and see what happens.
2006-06-26 01:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey girl!!! wake up babe. He wants to be a whore. If you can deal with a man having other relationships let him know you can deal with the other girls but!!! that is not healthy. I hope you will let your real prince find you and the other one will see what he's missed out on. If you want a lasting happy relationship I'd suggest it not be him Please. NO ONE IS WORTH YOUR LIFE.
2006-06-26 01:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by sngozig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all stop thinking that way
second think and take care of yourself
third if you focus on you He will come back
fourth You have to be strong...
2006-06-26 01:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by stessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person worth your tears will never make you cry. There is someone more worthy but you can't see that because your judgement is clouded. Pucker up and move on.
2006-06-26 01:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ben C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on and find someone better. you say "i cant date anyone else either".. why not?someone else out there can give you the love you need and not play with your feelings. this guy doesnt deserve you.
2006-06-26 01:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by nippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you kill yourself, you're guaranteeing that he will never go out with you again.
2006-06-26 01:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋