Dating nevers?

Question

Im a guy who hasnt really been on many dates. I want to know what are the things you should never do. For example, I have been warned never to ask a girl out online. Id rather not screw up so I want to know what things to avoid. Anything from asking the girl out to the actual date to dropping her off afterward.

Also if you have any advice about things I should make sure that I do. Those are also appreciated.

And just so you guys know Im not a playa. Thats why I havent been on many dates. So Im not looking for advice on how to get laid. Just the things that might help me get a second date.

Answer 1

I am also not a "playa" so I won't give you that sort of advice. I have been with my girlfriend for a little over a year now and we're doing great. When you ask a girl out, it's a good idea to know her well. Being friends with a girl for a while is very helpful in building a strong relationship. In this way, when you go on your first date it won't be so awkward because you will already be friends. Don't worry about screwing up. Just be yourself. Don't go overboard with impressing her. You want a girl who you can be comfortable with and who is comfortable with who you are.

That's how I think about it at least. I'm not an extremely popular guy because I don't have sex and drink and whatnot, but if you look in the right places, you're sure to find someone that you're happy with. Good Luck!

Peace
Chris

Answer 2

-don't burp out loud
-don't get drunk
-don't be too touchy feely right away (don't grope! but since you're not looking to get laid that shouldn't be a problem)
-don't stare at her too much but make sure you're making eye contact
-make sure you take her somewhere where you know she wants to be too, not just somewhere that you want to go
-at least offer to pay although you don't have to pay for everything
-open doors
-don't order for her...(at dinner and such)...let her choose on her own (you'd be surprised by how many guys just order for the girl)
-flirt, compliment her
-don't look around the room, especially at other girls
-listen to what she is saying, make sure you're actively participating in the conversation and not just going "mmhhmm, yeah...no,...yah..."
-BE YOURSELF, SINCERE (the girl will usually know right away if you are for real or not)
-don't sweet talk, you will sound like a player,
-go in for a hug at the end and if you want a kiss try going for it,
-if you want a second date, ask her towards the end of the date (don't do it anywhere near the beginning of the date it will seem desperate), or ask her for a second date when you call her the next day to tell her you had a good time (which you should definetly do)

Hope this helps! Good luck!

Answer 3

Be respectful! The smallest things are still appreciated by alot of girls. Compliment her, and mean it. Open the door for her, walk with her, not ahead or behind her. I love it when my husband puts his hand gently on the small of my back and escorts me into a room, or pulls out my chair when we go out to dinner. It seems to send a message out "she's mine, and I'm proud to be with her". It gives me this huge ego boost and makes him so much sexier to me. Make sure there is plenty of eye contact, especially when she is talking to you,. Even if your not interested in what she's saying, it will give her the feeling that she is the most important thing going on in your life right now. One last thing...when you drop her off, if the moment seems right, give her a light kiss, more like a brush on the lips. If she wants more, she'll let you know. If you say you will call her, wait till the about halfway through the next day, then actually call her. Good luck!

Answer 4

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