ok im only 14. i had sex last night. i thought it would make me so happy. but im not, well i kinda am. I DONT KNOW. im co confused and unhappy ; i think. i donk know wats wrong.
did i do somthing wrong? is it because im to young? i dot know i need advice
2006-06-25 18:12:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're just to young to do it....
2006-06-25 18:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by ladywolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like you weren't ready to have sex. First off, you have to ask yourself, did you have safe sex (i.e. did you use a condom male or female version, are you on the pill, or did he pull out just before he came.) Then depending on the answer you will figure out what do from there:
If no, at the first sign of a late peroid get a pregancy test. The EMPs (I think thats what they're called) are the most accurate, but also the most expensive. If I were you I would go to Planned Parenthood with the guy you have sex with after talking this over with him and asking the questions. If he likes you and doesn't want to face consequences, he will help you.
2006-06-26 01:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by Janel Nelson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex dont make happy, Acts make u happy. Having sex at this age and without marriage is not a good thing and in all havenly religions it is not allowed as our creator knows us better. Now u pray to God (One and only) and ask for forgiveness I am sure you will feel better and save your self for ur husband. If you do it again and again you will lose ur inner self and then you will not feel bad. We are not animals, we r humans so there r some rules for us in every field of life. If we follow these rules we can feel comfortable and if we dont we will loose our self. You r welcome for any help, write me at akhtar_kazmi@yahoo.com
2006-06-26 01:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by hellocontactme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Biker Chick
When I had sex for the first time, it was such a disappointing experience. I wound up hating the older guy and we broke up almost immediately. Don't feel too bad, because you did it because you were just curious.
My husband says that he lost his virginity when he was 13 to an older girl. He says that it felt so awful afterwords that he cried.
I'm sorry that you feel bad, but as long as you don't get preggers, just move on like nothing happened. If you do get pregnant, be sure to tell an adult who can listen to you and do what's best for you. Take care!
2006-06-26 01:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by Siddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are to young and should have waited apparently you didn't feel the same if you are second guessing your actions take a step back and look at it from another point of veiw figure out why you did it were you pressured into it? if so talk to a parent or other adult you feel safe talking to even if you were not pressured into it you should talk to an adult you feel comfortable with there are alot of things that can happen being sexually active such as getting pregnant, sexually transmitted diseases, and your self respect and reputation can be affected as well.
2006-06-26 01:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by aeval_anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take the time to sit back and think about it. What it meant to you and why you done it. Your unhappy cause you thought it was something magical and it wasn't really what it was all built up to be
Your told how magical and wonderful it is and really it is awkward and strang for the first time. I really suggest you really think of what happen. Best of luck.
2006-06-26 01:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by jennifer h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing you should be scared about is pregnancy. If you are christian pray to God, ask him for forgiveness of what you have done. Read the sinners prayer and recite it. Get saved, w/e makes you feel comfortable. Just ask God, to keep you from getting pregnant
2006-06-26 01:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by Confused Kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse u r 2 young for having sex better don't do it again
2006-06-26 01:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to ask yourself is why am i so confused. maybe it wasn't what you were expecting, or maybe it wasn't the right guy, or maybe you did it for the wrong reason. you know like trying to please your partner even though you didn't feel ready.
2006-06-26 01:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your guilty conscience is speaking to you, don't worry it will shut up sooner or later...
2006-06-26 01:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋