I am 21 is bad for me to have sex before marriage if you think yes,why?

Answer 1

it depends on your maturity. if you think your responsible enough to do it then do it without asking anyones opinion. you know yourself better than anyone else. but saving yourself for that one great love is better than having sex with your bf or gf,respect is the keyword for that. the fact that you ask out here proves that you are not ready to do it. just bear in your mind whatever you do you'll have the consequences and dont do anything you'll regret in the future.

Answer 2

Bad or not having sex is your free personal decision.Sex for the beginner is so much excited,fun and sometimes is addicted.From my personal and my friends experience,I recommend you to delay having sex before marriage.

I am 32 now,I had had sex long time before marriage,after I got married,sex seems quite tasteless and not fun anymore. The excitement and fun sometimes has turned into boreness.

My friend gave a nice example of having sex before married:
Sex is a bottle of water that you carry when you are hiking the hill.Sometimes you are thristy,but it's your decision to drink or not from the bottle.If you can't resist and hold your thrist,you will drink little by little.But when you reach the top of the hill,you have spend the whole water in the bottle.You feel nothing,less satisfied but just looking from the top the hill without additional satisfaction.

But,I would be different,if you keep your water bottle until the end of the hill.Your thrist will be greater.But when you reach the top of the hill,you enjoy the view and your thrist will be much much satisfied by the fresh water you've been carried this whole time.

One who can hold much more longer,get a better reward.

Answer 3

This is a question only you can rightfully answer. It is your body, you are taking the risk with your body and you would bear any responsibility that comes from anything that involved having sex. Sex is a powerful temptation for anyone but also it's a very special gift that you are able to give to just one individual the first time. Whether or not that individual is the right one is a tough call. Are you missing something by holding out? Yes and No! Remember you are only a Virgin once and once that is gone it's never recovered. If that experience is a great one then you dwell on it for life but if it's a bad experience then you are haunted by it for life. Not a very easy decision but one I think you should decide upon yourself and not from on here.

Answer 4

On the non-religion front, there is there's a string of issue to discuss (to deal with) if we have sex before marriage.

Some are, STD, Pregnancy, etc.

Sex is not just doing it and feel good. After that, things goes on. Sex touches the inner being of ourselves. Sex without love is terrible, even for a man. And if the relation is off after sex, it is terrible.

It suppose to bring us into the higher level of love, which is galvanised by marriage. Without that, there's no protection in the love (sex).

If any boys tells a gal 'sleep with me to prove your love', you may forget about the relation, and move on.

If the gal is so open to have sex even before marriage, will you think she will not do the same to other man after marriage?

Sex is something special, you do not want other man (other than the one worth to be your man) to spoil your body. Or will you throw your sperm into other women's womb just for fun?

Believe me, there is a lot of psychological issues to deal with, which is too long to discuss here. So, if you asked me, go and enjoy your relation, and after marriage, enjoy the wildest sex you know how.

Answer 5

I choose to save myself for marriage because think of yourself as a gift, do you want to share that gift with everyone, or let the person you are choosing to spend the rest of your life with open the gift for the first time. It is important because you don't want to regreat it. Any day of the week I could be like most of the people I know, but they can never again be like me.

I had a friend who would always say that he held a piece of the soul of each of the girls he had slept with, because they were connected in a way. I want to only be connect to my husband, which is why I choose what I do. Why do you choose to do it now?

Answer 6

I think yes YES YES
WHY AIDS Pregnancy STD's
comdoms are not 100 %
keep ur self pure for your future husband
Sex before marriage is not part of GOD's plan

Answer 7

It's really your decision, a very private personal matter that only you can decide & know if your ready, people will always have their own oppinions on whats right & wrong but at the end of the day it's you who has to deal with the consequences of the choices you have made

Answer 8

If you haven't had sex I would suggest you don't. If you waited this long why are you gonna throw "the pearls to the swines"
I threw my away at age 24, how stupid is that and I am 26 now and that person did not marry me. He walked. Hang in there the right person will come.

Answer 9

well, it depends on the way you look about it. i dont know if your a girl or a boy but anyway, i will still try to help out and give my opinion about it. well, for girls, i guess preserving your virginity before marriage is the best gift you could ever give to your hubby. do i sound soooooo conservative? well everybody is entitled with ihs or her own opinion. if you a man, just be sure it is a safe sex.

Answer 10

I think you are old enough to make up your own mind. Maturity is another thing. I matured alot through my relationships whether it lasted one night >-< or four years. It's your body, and you need to do what you need to do. I was 18. Loved it then, love it now... thinking about it/obsessing wasnt what the church meant about abstaining. obsession leads to bad things. Just be sure the partner is the right one and go with the flow!

Answer 11

No im 21 too and i am a virgin but if i really like the girl and she really liked me then its going to happen nothing wrong with making love