After the 1st date, we've started 2 get addicted to each otha, until she spilt her guts telling me that she's fallen 4 me, & i've responded the same way too. She can be herself while with me, has feelings towards me. We'll be on the phone constantly before we doze of at nite She shared most of the things that happened in her life, what more. It has been 3 months now.
The setback is that is she is someone's gf. Now, my feelings towards her is getting stronger and stronger. We've talk about it, and I am glad that she's even giving me a chance to see how it goes along the way. She's planning to get get married in 3 years time, but after we met, she doesn't know whether if that will happen.
She hasn't been sharing much of her feelings lately, and it has been disturbing me wanting to know more, wanting 2 look for the real answer but I don't wanna scare her away because of stupid move? How now? but i kno she's the missing puzzle I've been looking 4. Need your opinion.. Thanks
2006-06-25 17:46:32 · 10 answers · asked by popeye_inlovewithsum1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. What a mess. She needs to sort out what she wants. You don't deserve to be strung along like this. She has to make a decision. What you are doing will end up hurting all three of you. I know its hard, but you have to pull back and let her make a decision. You deserve to have a girlfriend who is totally committed to you. Not split between different people.
2006-06-25 17:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by kllr.queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me, i was with a girl for 4 yrs. her cousin was with a girl for 10. i met her cousins g/f and we hit it off from the beggining. we started to have feeling for eachother too. this went on for about 2 yrs. we finally decided to go for it dropped the ones we were with and got together and it was the best choice i ve ever made. that was 5 yrs ago and still it's like we were meant to be together. we still act like we just started seein eachother. the only difference is like most relationships the feelings and fun fades.........not this time, it's been great!! so i say GO FOR IT. hope this helps, good luck
2006-06-26 00:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been looking for a puzzle? anyway, don't mess around with someone's girlfriend, i've seen this story many times before and it never ends well. there's more single women than single men in the world, find yourself another girl.
2006-06-26 00:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by 96vintage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa that's difficult. i know someone that had that same dilemma. what he did was, he controlled his feelings and decided to stop seeing/dating the girl. now, (he has a girlfriend. they're on their 3rd year already.. :)) i think that was a good move coz he considered the other guy's feelings.
just ask yourself.. what if this will happen to you? what would you do?
2006-06-26 00:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by marlianne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u definetly need to do something drastic. She needs to know that u cant wait for her forever and u need to show her how serious u r. Im not saying pose an ultimatum but u rilly do need something of the sort.
2006-06-26 00:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are at cross road is best to know what u want in life as a partner if u really like her then go for her lor why this way ask her direct and what your future plan for u two ....
2006-06-26 00:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by Vis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing you both I bet just to get whatever it is she wants! Don't even mess w/ it! Some girls like to see 2 guys fight over them.
2006-06-26 00:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o wow well i mean if she feels for you like you say she do when reality hit she'll know that you wanna be with her and she'll feel the same
2006-06-26 00:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by single again 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably u have dated her.I u do love her and u have feelinges for her tell her that u love her and propose to her
2006-06-26 00:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that if she really loves you that she will have to break her relations with this other guy ... good luck
2006-06-26 00:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by brilliant blonde babe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋