I don't do online dating, and I met my boyfriend at the Mall 2 years ago. But, I heard that guys online do not take internet girls seriously. I heard they are just peices of a**. Is that true?
2006-06-25 17:40:35 · 18 answers · asked by roxylee11782 4 in Education & Reference ➔ Quotations
I think the internet is a bad place to meet people you want to check out to be friends or potential life partners. Although serious and nice people are often on the Net, it is also filled with weird and perverted people out to take advantage of people with serious and genuine intent. While girls may meet up with some good guys on the Net, they are more likely to be trailed or misled through nice words. If their intention is to find guys to match their personalities or interest, it is better to go to places with real people that they can see, size up and make a decision to move in or out.
2006-06-25 22:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by jazzylips 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I do ... and have been regularly for over two months. There are three good things about it. First, you can be exposed to a wider array of people that you would never meet otherwise. Two, you know that the people in the chatrooms are there to meet someone (the chances of hitting on a girl {say at the mall} who is simply not interested are much lower). Three, it allows you to have the freshness of sexuallity twice: you end up being sexual as you get to know them in chat/virtualworld, and then when you meet them, you are sexual again "for the first time", yet you know you are compatible and already know what turns your partner on. Because of this knowledge gained in the virtual world, the meeting is much more intense, and the roots of a strong relationship can grow deeper, faster.
One of the great things about falling in love is the feeling that the two of you are "made for each other", and that you feel "like I've known you forever". The virtual meeting structure increases these feelings because 1)even though you have just "first met" in person - you truly have known each other for a while and have a reasonable set of data to believe you are "made for each other" and 2)even though on the physical meeting level you are just learning about the person (how they walk, how they tilt their head, how they smile when they give you a sassy assed answer), again, you really have known them a much longer time, lending to the feeling of having "known them forever."
Of course, the wierdness goes without saying, though its funny how the dullards say it. But there are positives to technology, positives to the opportunity. Don't overlook them.
2006-06-26 05:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I have done it for a little while, I have only gotten the impression that alot wouldn't want to meet a guy like me or I just wouldn't want to meet them in the first place. Maybe because I am looking for a long term relationship. Though, don't get me wrong. I would get into some chat rooms and have an alright time doing my impression to be just me and things have been just fine from me towards other females. Have gained quite a few firends too. I kinda keep to myself though now. People are people. Each has their own agenda really. It just depends if you are in the right place at the right time. But it wasn't my thing though.
2006-06-25 17:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter met her now husband on the internet. It is hard, but there are some genuine guys out there, so don't despair. Just be careful as there are some nutters around. Good luck
2006-06-25 17:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by hugabye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how far they live from you! Seriously, from what I have seen, the answer is "no." Those guys talk to lots of girls on the internet...it's kind of a game for them, and many of those guys are addicted to porn too. I recommend being very careful.
2006-06-25 18:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by sunny1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were taking the girl seriously, they'd make an effort to meet up with her rather than have cyber sex (which I believe is overly weird) and just get horny off a computer screen. Excuse my language.
2006-06-25 17:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by tingaling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all of them. Some Internet girls are actually guys. Ha!
2006-06-26 05:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by cdf-rom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys gets jealous the girl plays too many games and not pay attention to them.
2016-03-27 04:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true for me. . . Nothing better than spending all week working up that online skank, then banging her on the weekend, then finding a new skank on monday and working it up all week, then baning her on the weekend. . . . It's a vicious cycle. . . . I think maybe i'm an addict.
2006-06-25 17:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wouldnt that be a piece of cyber @$$. some guys do. I met a great girl online, but found one flaw.....she wasnt her real age. I had to quit talking to her. made me feel real weird.
2006-06-25 17:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by late_sleeper35 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋