This girl was a good friend of mine.As time went by I started to fall for her.She was my first love.She's the only person who can make me smile just by looking at me.She makes me the happiest person on earth.The problem is she likes someone the same way I like her.As in she'd just rather be friends with me.I just wanted to make her happy.We never went out as bf/gf.Although I wanted that more than anything in the world. And in these past few weeks it had become a sickness for me.I lost 14 pounds in 2 weeks and slept just a few hours everynight.I was in complete misery.I happened to be with her when I finally just hit rock bottom.I broke down and cried to her."I am nothing without you.".I think I just upset her.I know she cares about me, as a friend.She'd ask me if I ate anything or slept.A few days ago her friend told me eveything I didnt want to hear."Impossible" is what she said .I finally just said I give up. I cant win. Am I right to just give up on her?On my happiness?
2006-06-25 17:28:40 · 15 answers · asked by dicktracey77061 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you all ready answered your own question,she wants some one else,sorry
2006-06-25 17:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by nate diggitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well man, the first love is the hardest. There is no easy way around that. It's kind of cheezy, but I went through the same sort of thing you described. The funny part is this: you will probably NEVER get over it!! (completely)
Move on when you are ready. You will not forget this girl...but just focus on the happiness of your friendship. And who knows, in 5 or 10 years??? ... The future is an open book, waiting for you to write.
2006-06-26 00:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should give her away. If you truly love her all you would want is her happiness. And as for yours, I know that it hurts now but in the end you will feel better knowing that you did something selfless. Seeing others happy over you and chosing to accept that makes you a better person. Good luck finding your true love. ^.^
2006-06-26 00:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by Janel Nelson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing ... you were absolutely right to give up on her. Trust me, a girl will come along that will absolutely love you for who you are. If this person doesn't see the beauty in you that exists, then that's her problem and not yours. You'll just have to wait until you meet someone who deserves you. She will come, eventually, if you are patient.
2006-06-26 00:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should seek out a person who has qualities you like, and give some other girls a chance. What you are doing to yourself is not healthy. You need to find someone to love that will love you back.
2006-06-26 00:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey look really all you need to do is move on she will still be your friend and someone will come on later on that you will love just as much as or more than you ever have liked that girl!!!! Move on dont be the loser that pints over the one girl he cant have!!!!
2006-06-26 00:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her space, be her friend. If its meant to be it will be. Enjoy being the girlfriend she wants you to be. Learn all her deepest secrets, all her favorites, Go shopping with her, and enjoy It when she models the swim suits for you. You know the things she can not do with "her boyfriends". It will happen for you in time. Hang in there.
2006-06-26 00:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by KAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're right. it's not worth it waiting for someone who you know will not love you back. it'll only hurt you more. and think about it. if something had happened to you because of her, would you like to see her upset over it?? you should just let go. there are many other girls out there. maybe you just havent found the right one yet.
2006-06-26 00:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by UsURaToNKaCHi89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never give up on happiness..its out there somewhere...please don't give up on your friendship with her...good friends are hard to find..getting past your feelings for her maybe hard but in the end you'll at least have her friendship...
2006-07-08 07:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by doubtfire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when some one tell you i just would to be friends. then they are looking for some one new. and if she likes your friend as she does you. then she may tell him the same. sorry but i think you need to move on. let the girls come to you...
2006-06-26 00:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by SherryPia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap. That's like my story except for the last few sentences. Haha.
2006-06-26 00:34:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋