There's no reason for him to say that to her and I'm getting fed up with it. What should I do?
2006-06-25 17:23:08 · 15 answers · asked by ditto_88_2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Leave him alone. Maybe the kid really, really sucks.
2006-06-25 17:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him about it.
Tell him what he's doing is wrong and degrading.
My father doesn't call me a moron or an idiot but he does say some really offensive things and although I have told him not to, he still does..
I would really appreciate it if somebody else has my back and talks to him about it as well.. Its always good to have support.. Do what you can. All the best!
2006-06-25 17:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by Artemis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your step-dad what the visiting hours are at the local jail cause that's where he'll be seeing his daughter. Or tell him she needs him now as a male-figure in her life or she will be looking for male companionship elsewhere and become promiscous. Either way, he's on the wrong track with his actions and is pushing her away when she needs him the most. he's making a big mistake.
2006-06-25 17:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you old enough and large enough to tell him to knock it off? He is obviously a bully and a coward with no self respect or for anyone else.
Perhaps you and other family members can jointly approach him and confront him with this improper and abusive behavior.
2006-06-25 17:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by expatmt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, you can do nothing to him. Being an A----ole isn't illegal. Fighting with him would just make matters worse. Just do your best to let the girl know that you're her ally and that you know she isn't that way. He won't change, but knowing she has you as a friend will help her alot.
2006-06-25 17:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by baddatesite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is verbal abuse, maybe talk to an adult close to you or call social service. This harms kids and makes them feel like crap.
Verbal abuse is harmful in many ways and sometimes stays with you for years to come. It can make the person feel worthless and harm themselves.
2006-06-25 17:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by wisehahn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. He doesn't sound like a nice person and you don't need to get his attention turned on you. Comfort the daughter and let her know she's not those things he says. Maybe get your mom to talk to him.
2006-06-25 17:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by heather m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps its best you talk to your step sis and tell her not to take it in. i know repetitive verbal abuse can damage self esteem and morale. remind her of the many good qualities she has and be patient with her, especially if she wants to talk. im sorry to hear this, i wish things work out for you and your sis.
2006-06-25 19:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by Mids 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up to him, and if that doesn't work go to child services if you are old enough try and get custody of her. Do it fast. If you wait to long she will begin to believe what she is told. Don't let him belittle her.
2006-06-26 09:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom and if it doesn't stop, leave. Go find a foster family or relative that will take you both in.
2006-06-25 17:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by Joey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're big enough, kick his *** or find someone to help him. but first tell him to stop. second, if he doesn't and she's a minor, call social services. they'll punish him.
2006-06-25 17:27:10 · answer #11 · answered by Lord Rupert Everton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋