Guys always seem to say that they're most attracted to girls with confidence. I'm kind of shy and quiet, and I'm wondering - is it impossible for me to ever hope that any guy will actually like me for these qualities? Or do I have to start strutting around? People tell me that I'm really beautiful and I know I have a good body, but I don't seem to get as much attention from guys as other girls do.
2006-06-25 17:15:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many men, not boys, like shy women. To think that a women is reserved is a trait men look for when looking for marriage, and in the USA, marriage is the last thing on all boys' minds, and the last thing on many men's minds.
I THINK shy is sexy and wonderful. Stay as you are, and you will find the MAN who appreciates it.
2006-06-25 17:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yea I like shy, cute girls. Guys don't really care whether ur shy or confident as long as THEY are confident that u like them. If u like a guy, show it a little more. You should talk to him, and you could even tell him u like him. But since ur shy, if you just look at him a lot (which I'm sure u do) and smile when he looks at you, I'm sure he'll get a little hint.
You'll find somebody, don't worry about that. And you'll eventually gain confidence in yourself. Just be happy. :)
Good Luck! :-)
2006-06-25 17:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by c90 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, guys do fall for shy girls. I wouldnt dwell so much on this. The write guy will come your way. I'm sure you will find someone. I'm sure your a very nice person with great qualities. Just hang in there.
2006-06-25 17:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course guys like shy, cute girls. I, myself, sure like the cute, shy girl that sits in the back...then the wild loud-mouthed slut. Plenty of guys would like a girl they can just realx with, do something like read the sunday papar under a tree together.
You don't get the attention because you are way in the back ground...guys just don't see you. Some sexy clothing helps get guys attention...it does not have to be all slutty, just nice looking and flashy.
2006-06-25 17:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm like you I'm shy and I when i was 15 I had 6 guys who wouldn't get over me. So don't worry guys will come in time. Right now they dont know the diffrence between up and down.
2006-06-25 17:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by ♥*~*♥chEErios♥*~*♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not to be too shy. I know that it is hard but if you loosen up a little and stop caring what people think of you then more guys will pay attention to you. Who cares about what people think about you, just be yourself.
2006-06-25 17:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm attracted to loud girls that are just out there, but that's my personal preference because that's what i'm like. People have different tastes for different qualities. Don't worry, you'll find someone.
2006-06-25 17:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by Sean S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like shy girls especially when they have pretty eyes. A shy girl has a hidden "wild side" just waiting to be unleashed and when it is unleashed boy look out.
2006-06-25 18:14:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes guys r attracted to shy ,cute girls
2006-06-25 17:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by gladiator27m 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i LOVE shy cute girls. I think it's very cute that you are shy. Yes, there is guys who like shy girls. at least i do.
2006-06-25 17:23:41 · answer #10 · answered by Smiles_187 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋