what would you change in your life right now if you could?

Question

would you change some thing in your life that has been giveing you a lot of problem's? and how ?

Answer 1

I would really listen to individuals and NOT open my mouth. We have so much to learn from each other.

Silence is golden. :-)

Answer 2

If I could change anything in my life, I don't think I would. I've thought about it, but if I were to change even one simple thing, I wouldn't be where I am today. I wouldn't know the things in life I do and I couldn't teach my children the things I understand.

Answer 3

I would almost say yes, but then, I would never have met the people that mean so much to me now...at least the situation would be changed. If I would have changed...I would have stayed in California 30 years ago....but hard to say if that timeline would have turned out the way I wanted (I fell in love with some one, but togetherness was not meant to be, but we have always been the best of friends)...just too young back then.

Answer 4

I would devote my entire life to my faith. My Gods have asked many favors of me, and I owe them a lot. If I could change right now, I would pay them back.

I would like to become a more effective Operator (closest translation to a rank in my religion.) Being an operator simply means that I practice being efficient. That I am balanced and practice the proper way to conduct myself. There are roughly eleven different things I can do to realize this desire.

1.)Awareness, I would like to become more aware of who and what I am. To be aware of my potential, and then to realize that.

2.)Discipline, This is by far and away my absolutely toughest change. I need to create a way of life, discipline offers that. What I need to do daily, how i behave and act. discipline in every sense of the word including punishment.

3.)nonjudgement, For all you crazies this does not mean I will judge nothing. More that I will not judge without understanding. In simplicity it means that I will not act on a standerd practice or operation becuase its deemed normal. I will not follow simply becuase its what im told to do.

4.)Respect. I do pretty well with this one. I often behave and conduct myself respectfully. However, there is always room to become better. My largest lack of respect is that of myself. I respect others very well, but when it comes to myself I let things go to easily. As I respect others it is only fair that I respect myself to the same degree.

5.)patience. This depends on my mood, there is little consistancy. I am honestly not a very patient person, more like I tolerate things that take a long time. I would like to be more patient in self discipline. I often try to hurry through the various troubles and situations i find myself in. leading to further troublesome situations.

6.)Trust, I trust very very few. Its not healthy or recommended. It creates isolation and paranoia. I could do with making new friends, but I fear everyone. This is a trouble from many promises not kept from people I have trusted. It will take some healing to deal with this.

7.)love... Sure I do that... My love is limited. I need to learn why I care, why I bother waking up in the morning. I know the answer has to do with love, would be nice if i could learn more about it.

8.)impeccability of invironment is my second greatest challenge. My place is a mess, i need to create a regular cleaning schedule and put things back as i take them out. I live alone, so i have no excuses.

9.)honesty. I am getting better, I used to lie a whole lot. I have recently learned that you can usually tell people the truth, becuase they are not listening anyways.

10.)taking action. Im no good at this, the above is proof. I wish to learn how to take action in creating the live i desire.

11.)impeccability of energy I am ok with. I often keep myself very neutral. Whenever I have trouble with energy i will pray (im my faith it is similar to fighting) and it usually goes away and i can see a clear answer to becoming a more proper being.

In simple terms I would like to make sense to myself. I know what is right and what needs to be done, all it really takes is realizing it. making it the truth.

These things i want come from a lot of reading i have done on the way i wish to live. They are of different religions and adopted to suit mine. The following was a small fraction of what I truly desire to make for myself.

Hails to the learned mind,
Silence

Answer 5

I would change something that has been giving me a problem for awhile. I would change it by never meeting the person involved.

Answer 6

If I could change something in my life. It be to get over my past and stop being nerves around people I don't know.

Answer 7

Wow, your question got me thinking. What would I change. My sheets and pillow case. I can't because my bed is so full of books and magazines and stuff I have printed off the web for bed time reading. Yep, I'd change the sheets. But I can't.

Answer 8

I know that this probably sounds cheesy, but I would work on my spiritual life. I am nowhere near where I need to be and know I can do better. I owe it to myself and most of all my daughter to be a strong spiritual leader for her sake and my own. That's really been weighing in on my conscience lately, so I know that its definitely worth my attention and immediate action!!!

Answer 9

yes, .......... i was goin 2 say never use drugs, then i thought no, i would change the way trusted fam. members[male] treated me.my stepfather sex. abused me when i was 5, my real father had sex w/me, my brother would jackoff in front of me. and THAT made me go into a diff. direction in my life than i wanted 2 go.so i would change somehow that. [ by the way my stepfather got run over by a tractor trailor, which turned him into the slime he was, lol] 1 down, 2 to go!!

Answer 10

i would change... i think i would change the way my mom and dad put so many bounderies up for me. it's like they keep me in a box and i'm never getting out. that's what i would change about my life right now.

Answer 11

I wish I could change from the character defect of answering dumb questions on the internet.