Or I don't know if I love her, but I don't think I do. At least not anymore. We met online, and I've never met her, but she really loves me and wants to be with me, and one day wants to meet me. I'm not sure if that will happen, but yea I guess I do as well. What do I do??! When she says "I love you," what do I say?
2006-06-25 17:01:20 · 11 answers · asked by Andre The Giant 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well ok il be honest
i have been telling her I love you and I love you too everyday becuz iv been talking to her online and on the phone everyday for about a month now, but lately she's getting boring, and I don't know if she's right for me. I mean I care about her, and I don't want to hurt her but I don't know any more. HELP ME!!
2006-06-25 17:12:39 · update #1
if i dont say "I love you too" then she'll get upset and say "oh ok i c how it is"
and what should i say when i get off the phone with her?
2006-06-25 19:20:26 · update #2
You say... "I know you do"....
Then says something that's true... like "I'm fond of you too". or "It's so good to feel loved".
look, it happens that the love isn't felt both ways.
2006-06-25 17:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh gosh, whatever you do, don't tell her you love her too, unless you really do. Especially if you're not in a hurry to go and meet her. She sounds like a nice girl; just level with her exactly how you feel.
2006-06-26 00:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by amereilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people say i love you just to be nice not kus they want to spend the rest of their life with you. but she's probably really fond of you kus its all personality on the internet. just tell her how you feel about the whole meeting thing and hopfully she'll understand. there's not much you can do untill you let her know how you want to go about this.
2006-06-26 00:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by xbinary_dreamsx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for sure u dont love her or u wouldnt have wrote this question and said " but i dont love her " , end it online and dont get into further engagements , that might hurt her but its better than the hurt which could happen after meeting and disappointing her .
2006-06-26 13:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Egyptian Daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just really need to sit down and think about if you love her are not. Whatever the case maybe just be honest with her .
2006-06-26 00:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by inaijah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say that you are very honored by her love. And that's it. She wants you to say you love her; tell her she is sweet and maybe oneday you will fall in love (you don't have to say with whom). Play it cool. you don't want to be responsible for her running away from home, do you?
2006-06-26 00:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really hard to know you love someone you have never really met.
2006-06-26 00:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you all read in love with someone else but not her because she isn't the one simple kind of harsh but simple.
2006-06-26 00:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by crazyinlife45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, or just stop talking to her and let her get on with her life.
2006-06-26 00:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by Leela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Tell her a white lie if you have to.
2006-06-26 00:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by starr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋