You see i want to ask this girl to the movies as friends not as boyfriend and girlfriend but my parents might think it's a date any ideas on how to tell my parents it's not a date or how to ask the girl out to the movies as friends i don/t want my parents to come with us. I want to be her friend so please help me!
2006-06-25 16:58:55 · 19 answers · asked by JONATHAN V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell your parents that you are going to the movies w/ a friend and if they don't go for that ask them if it would be ok if you asked the girl as well as a couple of other friends. as for asking the girl, tell her that you are going to the movies and were wondering if she wanted to go, but make sure that you tell her that it is NOT a date, possibly say that you want to get to know her better or something. If you are not comfortable with that, tell her that you and some friends are going to the movies and were looking for another person to go w/ you. if you don't make a big deal about she won't either. good luck!
2006-06-25 17:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by thatrandomgirl_22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll to deal with your parents tell them that you have no interest in this girl as a GF, and you only want to take her to a movie cuz you want to get out of the hosue with her since you don't spend much time with her. It might also help if you gave them the exact time when the movie starts, and when it ends to create trust.
AS for the girl it might be best to bring some friends with you, adn say you're taking some of your friends. However, if you only want to spend time with her tell them you want to sit next to her. Basically just tell her that you're going with friends, and you want her to come along.
If that's not your thing, and you want to take her alone, then just ask her what she is doing. Tell her that you where thinking of seeing a movie, but nobody else wants to go; so you want to know if she wants to go with you to keep you company. If she says no just act cool (which is what you should do regardless), and say "mybe next time." That's really all you can do. The best thing to do is not act like it's a big deal cuz tht will giv ethe impresson you like her.
2006-06-26 00:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Marcus O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy fellow; forget about the movie and ask the girl to lunch and meet her there. That way, mom and pop won't think it's a date, and you and the girl can really get to know each other over lunch (your treat of course). Then if things don't go so well, you only had lunch together. If they do go well, you can plan another date and tell you parents it's the same girl you had lunch with. Take it easy the first time and just chill.
2006-06-26 00:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. either:
-go with a group of friends to avoid the date misconception.
-talk to your parents about driving JUST a friend.
-if you pick option number two ask the girl out on your date using the phrase:
"Hey, I really want to get to know you better bc u seem like such a good FRIEND."
Or something on your own but mention the word "friend" at least once.
2006-06-26 00:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by libbyocto14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first,with your parents just act cool about the whole thing ,like she's one of your guy friends .tell them you and she is going to see a movie and that's it.if u act all nervous they will think it is more than it really is,so just be cool about the whole thing.and as to asking the girl,well I'm a girl and if my guys friend wants to go to the movies with me then it's OK ,only if he doesn't act like he is asking me on a date then i will start thinking maybe we are more than Friends .So i have only one advise fro u on how to Handel the whole situation ,just be cool collective,and most of all your normal self..
2006-06-26 00:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by musicflower_goldenstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay all you have to do is say hey buddy let's go see a movie maybe even invite a few other friends just show your friends she is a friend but not attractive to you in that way..
2006-06-26 00:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by crazyinlife45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her there is a really funny movie out that you want to see...then tell ask her if she wants to see it too...if yes, ask if she wants to see it with you, if no, ask her what movie and go with her to that one...tell you parents you are going to the movies with a friend...it is the truth, right? MayMay
2006-06-26 00:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by MayMay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to take her to the movies as friends, bring some of your own friends and ask her to bring her friends too so it's a friendly group thing.
2006-06-26 00:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you have to even tell your parents your going to the movies just go
2006-06-26 00:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask some other people to come like it's a get together but make sure the other people can come cause i did that and it ended eith just him an i, way embarrassing. Glad to help,
Sarah
2006-06-26 00:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah*Bara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋