just wondering, cause my girlfrind left me for a 40 year old guy and we've been dating since she was 16. is this guy f....ked up or what?
2006-06-25 16:39:25 · 12 answers · asked by boostedbuell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lots of younger women look for older men because they are stable and good providers.I don't think there is anything wrong with it.
2006-06-25 16:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by Georgia Girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you have to ask what this 40 year old guy has that you do not. Where was the attraction for her. By 21 most women have matured beyond most guys her age. He no doubt knows how to treat her in the way she thinks she should be.
It's tough for you. No question. But the age thing is not uncommon at all. And there are a lot of older men that really like to be with a younger women. They are not nearly as critical as a woman their age.
There is a world of difference between a girl of 21 and a woman in her 40's. Like night and day.
2006-06-25 23:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've said it before, age has no bearing on love or relationships. Age is only a number, nothing more. Think about it, if you were 40 wouldn't you love to have a 21 year old girl?
2006-06-25 23:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does a 40 year old man have in common with a 20 year old girl????? I mean think about it ...
2006-06-25 23:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has tons of money with a successful career and a shiny sports car. And she might have figured that older men KNOW more, but any smart guy will say that is not necessarily the case.
2006-06-25 23:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by SlothMachine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH ITS WRONG 40 AND 21 DOESN'T MATCH DUDE I'M SURE SHE IS JUST TRYING TO PISS YOU THE **** OFF TRYING TO MAKE YOU JEALOUS .IF I WERE YOU I WOULD JUST MOVE ON THERE ARE WAY OTHER FISH IN THE SEA SO GO CATCH YOU ONE MAN.
2006-06-25 23:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by angle2980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong my wife is 21 years older that me
2006-06-25 23:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by man_gmc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is just numbers, as long both is over 18...im 42 ..lol..us older folks isnt ready for the rocking chair just yet..lol...
2006-06-25 23:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah. does robbing the cradle mean anything. But for you, the old term- you snooze,you lose
2006-06-26 00:24:14 · answer #9 · answered by Robert C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck ya that dude is a flippin weirdo scumbag, you need to and jump him.
2006-06-25 23:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋