I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years. I love him but he makes me sick to my stomach. On the other hand, I met a great guy who I've been seeing for the past few months and we really, really like each other. Their both good people. It's just that the new guy seems better for the future and my man doesn't. I have no idea what to do.
2006-06-25 16:30:23 · 27 answers · asked by Antoinette 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Leave one and go with the other or enjoy the benifits of polyamory.
2006-06-25 16:36:14 · answer #1 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Know the problem been there done that. One thing you could do is write all the good things and bads things of both guys. Whichever has the most good things girl....run with it.
Another thing if you believe in a Higher power ask him to show you who's best and believe me he will
I talk this from experience, I met my SoulMate after praying.
I had dealed with a guy for 5 long years and I cared very much forhim, he is agood guy but didn't have a plan for the future. When I see him today he still doing the same old thing NOTHING. I'm so happy I made the right choice.
2006-06-25 17:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Blessed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you're not in love with 2 guys. I'm guessing you're in your early 20's and confused! If your older, then shame on you!
If one makes you sick to your stomach, then what are you doing with him? Do you want to walk around with Pepto Bismal in your purse for the rest of your life? This new guy is not the one either.
I mean let's face, if you have to ask complete strangers about this situation,then evidently there's something wrong with him 2.
Dump the 7 year stomach ache and lose new guy. Take some time off from relationships. Date casually for a while. You'll meet Prince Charming soon enough.
2006-06-25 16:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by Traci M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone that makes you sick to your stomach? I'm sure your b/f of 7 yrs. would just love to hear how his great g/f is in love with 2 guys. If times are tough, tough em' out and do the right thing. If it's doomed for falure, well then why would you still be there after 7 yrs.? I have to agree with the previous poster, it's most likely the lust and idealism of "the grass is greener on the side", syndrome. I can tell you one thing for sure. I'm glad I'm not your b/f.
2006-06-25 16:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been with your man for 7 years and have the gall to do this to him by seeing another guy, you should've left him 7 years ago. You should not be with him. How could you love someone that makes you sick to your stomach? That's just weird!! Obvisouly, you DON"T love him. Just go for the new guy. If he leaves you later, you'll know why...coz you messed up on the first guy and karma really sucks!!
2006-06-25 17:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend makes you sick to your stomach, there is something wrong. I'm sure you feel love for him after 7 yrs, but it doesn't sound like your in love with him. Besides, you wouldn't be on here asking this question if you were truly in love with your boyfriend. In a situation like this, go with your heart. Put yourself in a third person position and you will be able to see things a little more clearer. Good Luck, I know it's a tough place to be. :)
2006-06-25 16:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by BlueAngel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what you should do either. Maybe the three of you should sit down together and discuss this problem and see what the three of you can do. If two heads are better than one, then three should be even better.
Thank you for this opportunity to pick up another two points on my way to Answer stardom.
2006-06-25 16:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by valcus43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have enough anti-nausea medicine to last for the rest of your life, don't stay with the guy who "makes you sick to your stomach".
A lifetime is a long time to be nauseated...
2006-06-25 16:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by captbandage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and draw a parallel between the two of them..and then see who's got more "+" or "-"...this could help u to figure out which of them is the best...or at least better than the other one..:)
2006-06-25 20:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by Beauty isn't everything... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say Goodbye to the one that makes you sick, nothing will ever make it better, and you will never be happy!
Move on to the guy that makes you feel good and enjoy your life.
All the best to you.
Note to all :: NEVER SETTLE, you deserve only the BEST!!
2006-06-25 16:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by Blaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay with the dirtbag cause obviosly you 2 have something in common.The great guy derserves better.
2006-06-25 17:15:14 · answer #11 · answered by vinrock2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋