me and my boifriend have been together for almost 3 months!..His ex girlfriend is 5 months preg and everything is a secret to her! She doesn't no we are together she thinks we are just "friends" and he always has to lie to her when hes with me just so she doesnt do nething physco(aka make him pay child support)..But latelly its been bothering me knowning that HES having a baby with HER! its really bothering me!! wut should i do. I love him but its hard
2006-06-25 16:18:13 · 12 answers · asked by lillieinluv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all he shouldnt have to lie to her about you if your sppose to be his girlfriend, Second of all i understand you being upset about him having a baby with her but you cant do anything about that, and third if you love someone its not easy to just break up with them. If you really love him and he loves you then you wouldnt let something so little get to you.
2006-06-25 16:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by Princess P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If things work out between you and this guy, you know that he will always have some kind of resposibility to this child with another woman. Are you up for this? If not maybe it is time for a "exit stage left". Decide what you want, and maybe leaving isn't such a bad idea.
On the other hand if you really love the guy. Make it work.
2006-06-25 16:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's playing with explosives she's (ex) is gonna find out sooner or later. Then he's going to have to worry about back pay. As for you what if you get pregnant by this guy will he be honest with you? Tell him you love him and it was nice but you didn't sign up to be a secret agent go be a good father.
2006-06-25 16:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are keeping a secret from you too! They could still be together and he has not told you.
The relationship is only been short - so to save trouble and heart ache when the baby is born I would break up with him and find someone with a little less BAGGAGE!!
2006-06-25 16:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by Beccygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not 2 be rude ,but u need 2 leave him alone cuz he got a baby with his ex know and he needs 2 spend more time with his baby or u need 2 come clean 2 his babby mama and see if it is ok if u can see him.
2006-06-25 16:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by SHAUNDRA M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him about the whole thing. I would let him know that it is bothering you that she doesn't know about you! I think that he should be paying child support anyways! Good Luck!
2006-06-25 16:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by Megan W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel if you're about to be dump when you're 5 month's pregnant?
For the sake of God & the child, grow up, and move on......
Let him go.......if he can leave he's pregant girlfriend, what makes you think that he's not going to do it to you?!!
2006-06-25 16:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by dun_give_ a_ damn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any self respect at all? Why would you tolerate this situation? How would he like it if you were pregnant by another man. Get rid of this cheating loser. He will make your life a living hell.
2006-06-25 16:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the kid is born if she gets any help like food stamps,cash,or medical help the state will go after him for child support any way! so yes tell her. and maybe you should dump him if he is so worried about pissing her off sounds like he is more worried about keeping her happy than making you happy
2006-06-25 16:23:00 · answer #9 · answered by rickherr10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him once a cheat always a cheat
2006-06-25 16:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by frankeedi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋