Another related question: When I settle down and find someone to marry, should I disclose my sexual history, or should I stretch the truth a little so as to not look like a "manwhore"? Right now, I'm undecided. What do you think?
2006-06-25 16:07:16 · 21 answers · asked by Evan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Will you just answer my question instead of assuming I'm "lying" just because you haven't had as many notches on your bedposts? Actually, the second question is more important than the first. Ladies please tell me, would you prefer that a prospective husband tell you the truth and disclose the # of sexual partners or say they've only slept with a handful (a respectable number like, say, 0-10... and not 50-100)?
2006-06-25 16:14:58 · update #1
Another question (I'll post this here since I exceeded my question limit for the day): Would you be turned off if a guy told you that he has had x number of partners?
2006-06-25 16:24:20 · update #2
I think you should be brutally honest about some things in your past, and ultra-secretive about others. In this case you could "remember" a few relationships and "not remember" the vast number of other ones. What matters is that you are clean and don't have any diseases.
2006-06-25 16:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would consider you a man-whore and would hope that you have been to the doctor to keep up on your sexual medical history. Also, when you settle down and find someone, you should disclose your sexual history. It is not fair to your partner to not give them the whole truth. Because sex can be such an intimate act, especially between husband and wife, it is important to know each others histories. If she loves you and is the right person for you, she will understand, or be able to work past it. My advice would be to slow down to keep the number as low as possible. Remember, you partners health is at risk as well as yours, so disclosing everyting is important! Be safe!
2006-06-25 16:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by eagleschica02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many reasons why the situation you mention is frowned upon including but not limited to the following:1) There are laws in the United States which proscribe the age of consent at 18; so, this one is a no-no. 2) It is assumed that a 17 year girl is not emotionally, mentally ,or psychologically as mature as a man in his 20s and as such would be taken advantage of. The reverse is not held in the same regard. 3) Your examples, while true , pertain to a different era in man's history. Change is a constant in man's evolution so times reflect current thinking at least in this country. There are parts of the world today where relationships between men and women with large age variations still occurs. I will admit that there appears to be some double standards at work currently in how the issue is viewed( younger men are supposed to be happy when seduced or taken advantage of by older women)and the reaction it generates. But for the most part, the rules are for the better.
2016-03-27 04:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not a manwhore, unless u made yourself to be. You are just someone with huge sex appetite. However, to cut down your risks to viruses, would suggest you keep to regular sex partners. Have you seriously considered loving someone, wanting to care for the rest of your lives together? Sex to you would then be for only one person and that is her. It would also be more fulfilling as you are gamed up to pleasure her everytime and she might reciprocate too. However, as your historical records is on high side for your age, woud encourage you to seek a doctor for a full body checkup, explaining to the doctor of your sexual encounters and refrain from sex as advised by the doctor. Try DIY for the time being on your sexual desires, most importantly, go out and find a girl whom you would share your life with and keep to her. Pleasure her, like no other. Good luck.
2006-06-25 16:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by chio'z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a lot of girls so you might be on the edge of the definition of a "manwhore" and in reference to your second question....although it may be difficult I would be honest about your sexual history with someone you are considering spending the rest of your life with. If you are open and communicate about it, you will definately look more respectful.
2006-06-25 16:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Julia Gulia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50-100?? sounds like a lie to me. 100 girls is a crap load more than 50. but yes you need to disclose that fact that you slept with more than 10 women becuase women dont want to hear it. manwhore sounds like you are trying to brag about it. but you want a way to hide it?? contradicting a little bit.
2006-06-25 16:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by average joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her honesty is greatness in a relationship especially if you find you love her. Just tell her she would hate you more if you didn't and she found out, because oh yes she will eventually find the truth.♂♀
2006-06-25 16:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-06-25 16:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by hayli m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would consider you someone that is open to catching HIV or some other STD you need to slow down or you may not make it to see 25!
2006-06-25 16:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you get paid? No? then your not a whore...you just a common s!ut.
anyways, I wouldn't call you that, but I would place a bet you have some form of VD.
2006-06-25 16:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋