I mean my friends and family say i'm pretty but i wonder if they're prejedice. NO SARCASTIC STUPID ANSWERS.
2006-06-25 16:04:01 · 11 answers · asked by SJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We all tend to build unpleasant pictures of ourselves in our minds. We don't like this or that about ourselves.
Just remember that everyone including you are beautifully made. We must work on our good points.
If you can find it at a library or someplace find the children's story of "The Ugly Duckling" and take the lesson it teaches to heart.
I am sure you are very pretty..start thinking that way.
2006-06-25 16:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is wrong with your self- esteem. Did someone tell u as a kid that you were ugly and u believed him/her? I used to have a low self-esteem problem and it nearly ruined my life. Actually its not even about how you look. If for any reason, you think you are not good enough, then get some professional help. Confidence is way more important than looking like Angelina Jolie.
2006-06-25 23:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by girlnextdoor2000in 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about it so much and just go with it, You will start feeling better about yourself, People find confidence attractive so just get dolled up and have fun. And listen to your family and friends in there eye's you are beautiful and that is all that matters..
2006-06-25 23:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur self esteem is wicked low. i have the same problem...so what u need to do is take a long hard look in the mirror, find something that you like about urself, hey maybe even 2 or 3 things, and when you feel like crap look at those things and say 'hey, i like my eyes or my lips or my nose (watever it is) and u'll feel better
2006-06-26 00:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter if you think your ugly on the outside, what you need to do is sit sown and really look at yourself deep down inside. your not ugly, and your family and friends arent being prejudice, theyre being truthful with you. with the fact that your shy around guys, what you need to do, is if you like a guy, write down how you feel, and sign your name at the bottom and slip it to him somehow, or how a friend give it to him. dont sweat it, dont be shy, be yourself, a guy likes that in a girl.
2006-06-25 23:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by Silver Rose Tiger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feel the same thing . dont worry.. its the personality is really that matters and they way you handle life..
and justin.. People like you are the reason why I hurt cocky people. Keep ur opinion to yourselves, you might be unlucky enough to bump with me one of these days..
2006-06-25 23:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Chicago19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel and sadly I don't know the answer. It's so much easier seeing beauty in others.
2006-06-25 23:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by MR. Tumnus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the most handsome guy alive and cocky about it. Maybe that's why God punishes me for letting me go out with girls.
2006-06-25 23:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by 120 IQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from life experience, I've learned that you are always the worst judge of your own attractiveness.
2006-06-25 23:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello SJ,
your beautiful.
i'd love to talk to u.
2006-06-25 23:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋