this guy i work with he looks at me all the time across the room he stares deep in my eyes. we've talked only once but it was work related. he passes by me when i look up to see him he gives me this look straight in my eyes for about three seconds and then turnaway. my coworkers notice that he's been checking me out they say he's shy.... i have a crush on him now.... and one of my coworkers went up to him and confronted him about this situation i am so embarrased i don't know what to do i'm scared this guy won't talk to me now that this has happened. what should i do?
2006-06-25 15:30:55 · 22 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it is a good thing, like you said, he's shy, so someone might have had to tell him that you liked him to start a relationship with him if that's what you want. Just go about things normally, don't worry about it, if he cares he'll come to you and talk about it, otherwise, just keep looking great-so if that guy doesn't work out, at least others you know will be checking you out! GOOD LUCK!!! muck luv! ~carly
2006-06-25 15:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by Carly L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl next time don't make things 2 obvious because if u do people would start questioning and i know u don't want no 1 all up in yo business like that so just lay low about it....But if he do come and say that he's Been checking u out then i say go 4 it girl lol.
2006-06-25 15:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by CaramelDelight73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe grow up. Come on, whats the worst that can happen. I guess you're young, but you need to get over it and if you like that guy talk to him. Whats the worst that can happen, he just not continue to talk to you, or you find out he actually likes you. I feel like I'm in high school again giving this reply.
2006-06-25 15:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by gaea08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he doesn't like you after hearing that he'll probaly avoid you. If he doesn't avoid you, why not try asking him to lunch? next time you bump into him just say "hey, do you want to come with me to get a bite to eat later?" you should be able to get a better sence of how he feels then. maybe it won't be so bad that someone told him, maybe he was shy and afraid to ask you out....
2006-06-25 15:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by Christina W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is truly meant for you, he'll talk to you again. If he's kind of quiet around you, just let him go. Don't try to explain yourself--that'll only make things worse. Hopefully he'll come around.
2006-06-25 15:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by happy311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luke 17:3 says: "Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him."
Forgive your co-workers. Don't hold any grudges. Ask God (in the name of Jesus) to heal you of your pain and hurt.
As for your crush, go have fun with him. He would probably like to talk with you!
2006-06-25 15:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by rjss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another drama queen. Give it a rest sister friend.
2006-06-25 15:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats a though situtation one you could confornt him about
it now that he already knows and yall can talk about it or you can
keep hiding it then he might think that you immature about it and
dont want to talk about it . when he trys to start a convo. talk with
him . and if he dont want to talk to you then he needs to get over his self !
good luck
2006-06-25 15:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by TiFFANY90210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really is shy then talk to him about going out or anything like that you shouldnt worry because maybe if he doesnt want to talk to you anymore you should try and talk to him but maybe now he will try and talk to you more and maybe ask you out really just try and talk to him about going out or ask him out
2006-06-25 15:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh NO! It's bad! Try fix the problem. Talk to him about it.
2006-06-25 15:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋