the relationship is been going on for 3 years.the abuse started in last few months
2006-06-25 15:18:17 · 13 answers · asked by mari 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OF COURSE NOT! Not only is it horrible for you, it can mean terrible futures for your children, you should try the best you can to get out of the relationship, call the police and they will probably arrest him, if you have physical evidence. If he gets out of jail the police may give you some paper saying that he cant come near you or your kids and if he does he gets arrested. If you dont get out of this marriage your kids will more than likely become abusers to THEIR spouses, do drugs, or commit suicide..think about this relationship...your kids...your future...
2006-06-25 15:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by bribabygirl5 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should do yourself a favor and get away from the abuse. You shouldnt take abuse from nobody regardless what your chemistry is. If your kids see the father beatin on their mother, then they will think its the right thing to do and they will start to pick that behavior up. Your kids should still be able to see their father just dont stay in no relationship and take that. So for you and your kids sake, no do not stay in an abusive relationship.
2006-06-25 15:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by Princess P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there..maybe he has found someone else and doesn't know how 2 tell u except being mean 2 u hoping u leave first. Don't let the kids be an excuse 2 keep getting abused. It is not worth it and if u are not happy u kids will pick up on it and won't be happy either.
2006-06-25 15:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by BLUE BUTTERFLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not, the kids could be next and in my case were, my dad was very abusive, i seen all kinds of things and as a child of abuse i can tell you that it is very tramatic to the kids to see this kind of things happening to thier mommy, and then they take after the kids and always seem to have a good reason to do that and when they get to be adults the chances of them acting the same way they have been brought up is very likely. and then there is the therapy they may have to go through. please dont put your children through what a lot of us have been through. get out of there and take your babies with you.
2006-06-25 15:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur stupid if u do, w/all do respect. Sweetie I had a mom who stay in a relationship like that, and she no longer here. He beat her to death w/a table leg, and the butt of a gun. And I'm probly older than ur kids, but u have to ask urself, do want ur kids to growing up thinking that's how a relationship should be? I can tell u fr. my own experience, I would much rather to b able to c my mom happy, vs. sad anyday. Sweetie I'm begging u please dont let ur kids go through what my brother and I did. I'll be praying for u.
If u ever want to talk, u email me, please, I promise I'll be here for u.
2006-06-25 15:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no....get out NOW....the worst mistake i made was staying with my son's father after the abuse started....now he has picked up on some of his violent ways....if he loves the kids and you know he won't hurt them....then work out some kind of visitation agreement...you should not be in contact with him....things will only get worse
2006-06-25 15:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by shmafo_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I was abused myself as a child, that sucks...please leave...it will be the hardest thing you have ever done, but leave...and get help, get your kids out of there.
2006-06-25 15:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by tisbettertolove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance, you should respect yourself and for the kids sake you should get them away from that. They will grow up and always remember what the see!
2006-06-25 15:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by c money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. The kids could be next. Do whatever you have to to get away.
2006-06-25 15:22:13 · answer #9 · answered by ladysodivine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and neither should a guy. my x put me in the e.r. twice and I'm sad to say i actually told the er doc i cut myself on a broken glass, i dint think he believed me he gave me a look i still remember . no one deserves that. do better for yourself.
2006-06-25 15:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by error file not found 404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋