Worst pain in the world. Please, anyone come help me.?

Question

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a month and a week. We're both almost 16. We live about 40 minutes apart, but I think in a way, the distance is a good thing.

Her parents don't really like me, but my parents approve of the relationship. Today, I got really pissed because she told me about how her parents don't like me, and are judging me, and saying stuff about me, and trying to get her to go out with this other kid.
So, I called their house phone and left a message saying "This is ridiculous, I hate when people judge others without even knowing them, please call me."

Later on, we were talking a lot, and she was saying how her family is really getting to her. I've seen it too... they treat her differently and are always fighting and giving speeches to her. I asked her if she was gonna let it get to her and dump me. She says "No." I ask her a little later and she says "I don't know anymore..."

Later again today, she calls me and says... (continued)

(she's crying histerically)

"It's over."
Me: "What!?"
"We're done. I can't do this."
"huh!? Why??"
"My dad. I have to end this. I'm sorry."
"No... no way... After all of this!?"
"Sorry, bye. I gotta go, I can't talk to you, never. Don't call me."
"Omg..."
"You'll do better without me, you'll find someone else. Bye forever."
"Wait..."
**She hangs up**

I love her so much, and idk what to do. She's the one person I've really felt something for. I was crying for 30 minutes after that, then like every 15 minutes I would start again. And I never cry. She really impacted me.

Now here I am. Do I call!? Do I wait two years when she doesn't have her parents controlling every single thing she does??

I can't take it. I tried doing everything. Sleeping, playing games, eating, watching TV... and talking to people only makes me cry.

And the worst part is, I feel like she doesn't really care. She was crying, but she totally let me go. She's on AIM right now, but not talking to me. I feel she's

She's completely let me go already... like I'm just there in the dust.

What do I do!???

Does this mean that she really didn't like me that much? Or is she somehow controlling all her emotions? And how could she do this to me?

I feel like crap. I seriously considered walking into the highway. I probably will never commit suicide, but it's the first time I've actually considered it.

I hate this feeling. I wanna move on, but I also don't. I don't wanna forget about her... I really love her. Maybe I can wait 2 years. But what about her? What if she did just blow me off already? Then what's the point in waiting 2 years? She won't want to be with me.

I hate to say this, but: "ANYONE! HELPPPPP!"

Answer 1

i think that you and your girlfriend need to work out what problems you are having.... parents tend to swagger their childerns opinion by the way they talk or how they treat them around a particular person.... if your girlfriend is unsure of your relationship with her then either you should fix everything with her and her parents by talking to them in person or you guys should both decide that it would b better to go your seperate ways....

Answer 2

look bro, 40 minutes at 16 years old doesnt work. She is not going to be worth it in the long run because there are cute azz chicks that live right by you and you could sneak out at night and go over there. The romantic stuff can wait, get as many as you can while you can, stop worrying about what some old farts think of you too, parents rarely like the kids their daughters date, especially if they are hot. Stop worrying.

Answer 3

You are only 16 and it might seem like a big deal now cause your heart is in it, but you will either grow up and move on or you could possibly be together for years-I have friends who have been together since 16 and are in their 30's. But for now all you can do is be supportive,either as a boyfriend or simply a friend. She has to live with her parents and as long as she is under their roof and she is a minor they do have a LARGE say so in what she does.

Answer 4

I think you should have a talk about what you are goning to with your life is she worth holding on to takeing abust from her family the rare more fish in the sea so you need to ask your self is she really what i won't and need talk to her if she not sure than 9 time out of 10 she going to do as her family say cause she doesn't won't to unwonted from her family and have no were to go what if you do keep going out than something happens and you guys braek up whatt is she to do her family has turn there back on her think about it and talk to her.

Answer 5

your 16, get over it. i know it seems like a big deal to you now but having such complications at an early age is not worth your time. you can't change people. if they don't like you and that is too much for her well then so be it. when i was 16 i took my relationship so seriously; so dramatically-now it makes me laugh. its ten years later and im so glas about all the interesting women i have met! life is too short. cut it off and move on. it will only suck for like a week and then you'll be over it! good luck!

Answer 6

Fortunately, beyond 'almost 16' is 16, then 17, 18, and so on.

You tend to get it right when you're in your late 40s.

Enjoy life. Drama is interesting, but it makes for a tense lifestyle.

Lighten up. Go have a fling with your aging aunt from encino.

Answer 7

getting your balls hit by a baseball going 90mph.

Answer 8

there is a million girls out there. screw her and her uptight old man.

Answer 9

hmm well u sound confused