If i did interracial marriage, would it work or should i stick with my people?

Question

i'm attracted to foreign girls, or american white girls. I'm mexican american. my sisters married americans too but one of my sisters, i do'n tknow because she lives far away, but i sensed she and the husband are not doing well. i fear it , i also fear that i'm may never get a girl that i'm attracted you based on racism, cause you know usually some foreigners prefer white ....almost never mexican.. so if wanting to mate with the type of people you are attracted to, will mean you will look all your life and perhaps never find anyone.. and on the other hand probably a nice lady from your culture/race would love you ,, so am i wasting my time?

Answer 1

if you really feel that you are seriously attracted to women who aren't of the same race as you, then you should just follow your instinct. you're different from your sister and if her interracial marriage is a failure, that doesn't mean that yours will be. you can't control fate and you can't choose who you fall in love with.

Answer 2

You're looking at this whole matter from a very negative standpoint.
Your sister's marriage may be on the rocks for reasons well beyond your knowledge or need to know (like, he's messing around or she's a pain in the a$$ to him), and has nothing to do with race.
You're being racist just by suggesting that women won't like you because of your Latino heritage.
If you think it will be a problem, then quite frankly, don't pursue women who are not of a similar ethnic background, and save yourself a lot of angst.

Of course, if you're willing to grow upward and be a bigger, better person, then what you need to do is become acquainted with people of similar INTERESTS, GOALS, INTELLECT, SOCIAL STANDING, etc- regardless of the color of their skin.
Get past the race issue and start looking at peoples' hearts.

Answer 3

I totally agree with Ben. I support interracial marriage 100%. Its all about love, and who u are attracted too. I'm white, and I love mexicans!!!!!!!! But I fell in love with a white dude, so its all a balance, love ruled over race for me, what will it be for you?

Answer 4

np with marrying someone from another race....if you're both in love and both are willing to make compromises, then go for it. i can say that I, too have thoughts about it....my bf is white, im an Asian....sometimes, i think things wouldnt work for us mainly because of the culture difference. still, we both want to have the best of both worlds. good luck to you.

Answer 5

Personally,I dnt think race shd be dat much of a problem.Wat mattas is how u and d gurl in question feel bout each other. Do u understand yourselves, how do u feel around each other?,comfortable,relaxed or wat? Ask yourself if u r happy with her.
Sumtyms u might marry sum1 frm d same race and still things jst wnt work out. So dnt let it fool u.

Answer 6

In my opinion u should stop looking for someone and give them time to find u no matter who they are or where they come from.

Answer 7

If you really love someone it shouldn't matter what color they are.

Answer 8

you should do what makes you happy.