i like some guys and usually for the right reasons like: cute ,funny, smart, and are easy to talk to!!! but how do i know if i should ask them out or not or should i just wait for them to ask me? i have never had a boyfriend before and when i have it was'nt real cause i was in like the 3rd grade!!! i am still quite young now but i want a boyfriend and i would only go out with someone i liked!!! how do i flirt without being tottaly stupid and annoying???well i hope you can help me!!! thankz!!!
2006-06-25 14:35:19 · 10 answers · asked by zacefronluver13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-25 14:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's ok to ask a guy out. Just strike up a conversation with him and ask him if he'd like to grab a bite to eat sometime or something. You don't have to wait for a guy to ask you. Some guys are pretty shy and want to ask but are afraid they'll get turned down. The trick to flirting is to not try too hard or take it too far. A sly smile, a deep look in the eye, or a quick rub on the knee will help a guy know you really like him. Also, a guy usually likes a girl that takes an interest in things he likes to do, so try to find a guy with similar interests. Good luck!
2006-06-25 14:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by blueskies7890 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to know for sure.
You can always try asking the guy out, this is the 21st centruy. Most girls just go for dropping hints, say things like 'gosh, guess I'll just watch tv friday night' or 'I want to see this movie'. Things that give the guy a big opening to swoop in and say something. And a light physical touch never hurts....
And you can't flirt without being stupid and annoying and silly...that's kind what flirting is.....
2006-06-25 14:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for starters if you have a funny side then use it to its full potential and relationships are all about trial and error so if you like the guy and hes up to your standards just ask him whats the worst he can do say no and just tell him in a jokingly voice okaaaaaaaaaay but you dont know what your missing lol
2006-06-25 14:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think girl shouldn't take the first step. Lets the guy be the man. this is because if a girl show she like the guy a lots, guys will take advantage on it. if he doesn't even dare to ask you out or your number, i think he might a bored guy to you.
If you really like a guy, give him a nice smile to show that you are interested on him. if he also interested on you, he will get that message and ask you out.
2006-06-25 14:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by mcmag B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't know what to tell you. maybe you should let them ask you. as for the flirting thing. i don't know because i've never flirted with anyone. i guess just say "hey. how's it going? i really like you and was wondering if you could give me your name? and possibly your number too?" i don't know if this will work, but it might help. h.t.h.g. (hope this helps girl)
2006-06-25 14:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by ♥pinkgirl091♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should take it slow cuz if u rush it or try ta make someone lik u they wont give it time and ma theory is the girl should never ask its a guys job to cuz if u go on dates you wouldn want to be the one payin for everythin all the time OR what if he thinks that u been eyin him for some while and be lik STALKER wait for him too
2006-06-25 14:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, i would try to be his friend and see how that works. maybe when he spends more time with you, and after he becomes closer to you, he might be comfortable with asking you. and it might make it easier for you to break the ice on the subject.
2006-06-25 14:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by koda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and if he finds u annoying lata for him
2006-06-25 14:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by t..k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if ur interesting in that person!,.
2006-06-25 14:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by Novato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋