2006-06-25 14:34:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rather than to put your concentration on boys make sure you're keeping up your grades and putting important things on your plate. Boys will be around forever don't be in such a rush. Wait till you're a little older. U may find yourself in a not too good position and not ready for the situations boyfriends may put you in. And at your age you don't have to do ANYTHING to get a boyfriend. They're on the prowl hun, just be careful!
2006-06-25 14:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by gabby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are attracted to other people who have a fun life and and are involved in life and are enthusiastic about life and enjoy life. Get enthusiastic about having a fun life and truly being happy and then one day you will have a fun healthy relationship with a boy who is attracted to a happy , healthy , interesting girl over the age of 14. Boyfriends are stressful and you have to worry about them...because you almost never find the right one this first time. Enjoy your freedom and life ...and have fun with your male and female friends.
2006-06-25 21:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is not to "DATE" yet... Go out with friends in groups, boys too. If you start "Dating" then you may find yourself in sexual situations before your time. Boys can be more fun to hang around with than girls at your age they're into having a good time & not bitching. Be AWARE of seeing older guys, they can subtily push you making you believe they "Love you & you'll be together forever- what ****!!" Don't just settle for the first guy that asks you too (unless your smitten with him). If you do you could miss out on the Guy you really want. IF YOU DATE 1 GUY HE"S CUTE FRIENDS ARE GENERALLY OUT-OF-BOUNDS THEN!
2006-06-25 22:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by Therese M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to do anything, really... just be YOURSELF!!! like, do things which you normally do.. dont think much about what kinda guy you would want to date or be with... just wait... but for now, since you're still young and fragile enough for such kinda things, focus more on your studies, set your priorities, and most importantly, be yourself... dont get too excited about that thing... you've got a lot of time... and once you've found THE ONE, ask God' advice, and i'm pretty sure it'll help you a lot!!! God bless!!! and good luck!!! i hope a helped you...
2006-06-25 21:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by jana(^-^) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby Girl- don't rush yourself.... You have all the time in the world to get to that point. Have fun! Enjoy yourself. I know you've already heard that A MILLION TIMES- truth is, you're young, you can do anything right about now..... enjoy it while it lasts. If you decide you can't wait, just take your time- Don't believe just anything those little boys tell you, for that fact even big little boys lie...
2006-06-25 21:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by christine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want a boyfriend? What is a boyfriend? Intimacy, friendship, to be mainstream? Find someone who is relted to you in ways like, hobbies, classes, personalities, etc. Or if you see some shy guy who may totally different with you, show him some interest.
2006-06-25 21:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by chris a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, at 14 you are too young to be thinking about boyfriend, please stay in school and study to set the stage for your future, having a boyfriend at this young age could be not such a good thing at this time, things might happen like pregnancy or heart break that can be damaging. Also sexually transmitted diseases. Please wait a few years more until you are much older, 19 maybe.
2006-06-25 21:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't had a girlfriend, it's better though if you think about it, relationships during high school don't last, it's a waste of time and money you should until AT LEAST your junior year trust me it's for the best.
2006-06-25 21:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by DJ Vendetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your hurry? I promise you...do your best in school and concentrate on your studies...boys can come later, but nothing will take the place of a good education. With brains, you will be able to do anything and you won't need to define your happiness and success with a guy...you'll provide those things yourself.
2006-06-25 21:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by Cyndie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 14 and well i've gone w/ guys but it never turns out good. so just to give u the 411 wait and be patient time will come and he will be good for u.
2006-06-25 21:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by Julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋