i am married and love my wife in every way but she has a very low sex drive and mine is very high so i get it elsewhere but am feeling a bit guilty
2006-06-25 14:31:52 · 23 answers · asked by loop'n'stab 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea you got needs don't don't you shyt i have them why not
2006-06-25 14:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by SXXINEZZ 1 · 5⤊ 3⤋
If u love your wife u will keep your mister wiggles under wraps. If the shoe was on the other the foot. Would you want her cheating on you? And would you forgive her? Because the only reason she did it was because you did not have a high sex drive. Just try and imagine it and how would you feel?
Try and arouse her more.Not just a little kiss i mean, the whole nine yards. FOREPLAY LOTS AND LOTS OF IT!!!!!!!!!! Make her feel sexy, beautiful, and wanted more ways than one. Men forget to do the things that were done long before getting married.The little things you did to get into bed with a lady.Remember this sex is sometimes better if u have to work for it a little and make sure she feels very very good while your doing it. Because believe it or not I used to think i had a low sex drive.You should know i do still love my ex-husband but sexually we were on two different waves. All my ex-husband wanted to do was kiss and stick it to me. But that was not what i needed or wanted. And now i can't get enough sex. I get 7to1 orgasms with my new boyfriend, and loving every minute. Oh yeah i really do think it's a bad idea to sleep around on your wife, if you try the things above maybe your wife will like sex more. You can never have too much FOREPLAY.
2006-06-26 20:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by cccake1273 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is your communication? I would broach the subjuect VERY delicately, but instead of doing it behind her back, you should include her... if she flatly denies the possibility of compromise, then dude, you have to respect her wishes - but there are so many options for the both of you - like searching for a girl that your wife would be comfortable with, having her there? I dont know, but Talk to her about it. Not talking with her doesnt make it a sex buddy, it's down right cheating... remember, sensitivity and taking things sloooow.
2006-06-25 21:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by shelleymainj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad to hear you are coming to your senses! You should feel guilty, because that is just wrong. Every situation in a marriage can be worked through. Stop disrespecting your wife and gets some sparks going again, geez!
2006-06-25 21:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should your wife might have a low sex drive with you but do you know if she has a sex buddy too? How would you feel then?
2006-06-25 21:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by confused7873 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never right to cheat. You married her and that means in good times and in bad. Talk to her and let her know how you feel. Let her know that you love her and you want to know how to make her more interested in you sexually. Do NOT tell her you are thinking of cheating unless you want to sleep on the couch.
2006-06-25 21:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by dkhae1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be alright to have a sex buddy if you weren't married...but do you think she would stick around if she knew ...then you'd get no sex from her at all....hell who knows maybe she got a sex buddy to thats why you don't get it !
2006-06-25 21:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by pmbroe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the wrong. You know it. You don't love your wife in every way or you wouldn't be acting upon your needs first. What about her need to be respected and honored?
2006-06-25 21:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by bortiepie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a bit guilty? Man, what a creep you have to be!!
2006-06-25 21:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by Paul F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got the same problem w. some of my wives and girlfriends, it's Catch 22.
2006-06-25 21:35:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife knows about her and is ok with it (it happens!), proceed. But remember: no glove, no love. Wear a condom, dude.
2006-06-25 21:34:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋