i've been living with my cousin for almost 4 years now ever since my mother died but i dont like livin with her anymore, she really strict and mean. she doesnt trust me and she wont let me have aboyfriend until i move out. she laways checks up on what im doin and its really annoying she also calls me all kinds of names and makes me feel bad about everything i do. plus i just recently found out that she recieves money from when my mother died that is suppose to be spent on me but she spends it on me and her kids that is not fair. i get depressed everytime i come home . i even had thoughts of suicide i would rather live in the system than stay in her house. i have to do something QUICK
2006-06-25 14:13:08 · 11 answers · asked by miltown_cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just be strong. This is what life is. There are bad patches and good patches. You can't give up and think of suicide during the bad patches as it would make you a coward and you don't sound like one to me you sound very level and strong.
Don't worry about having to do ANYTHING quick, you aren't getting tortured or anything, just play your cards as level headed as you can, you have had many proper replies to your question simply follow the instruction given, let the proper people know what you are going through and BE STRONG, the bad patch will eventually go away and you will be looking back at it with a smile.
These bad patches help you to build character, go through them with this knowledge. It isn't too difficult, life is VERY long and it is ALL in front of you, there are many people who would love to have such simple problems like the ones diagnosed with cancer who only have 6 months to live, you will be fine you know you can go through this fine, just think the harder they come the harder you will become and you will be laughing at your cousin one day.
good luck
2006-07-09 11:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you feel this way. You definitely need to find some one to talk to about your problem. But suicide is definitely not the answer. Is there another family member that may let you stay with them? Just be patient and try not to say too much until you can find someone that you can really trust to talk to. Good Luck.
2006-07-07 10:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by ♫†☼☼♥Natasha♥☼☼†♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are and you must not have ever been in the system to think that it would be better. Grow up literally and figuratively, Quit worrying and whining about your cousin, you don't have it that bad, She is just strict, you are not being beaten or sexually abused. Everyone who loses their parents should be so lucky. Take control of what you can control ie. your education and plans for your future. that is what you should be worrying about.
2006-07-09 12:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by Augie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not try to suicide yourself becsaue it will not solve this. Only solve this if you get help and let them know becasue it looks like you are ready to end it. and it not worth it. Go get help and tell them what you said and they will go to her house find out what going on. And what more they will find out that you don't have anything clothes stuff normal kids shoudl have and money she used for her kids and man she going to get her asssss big trouble with the law and it money help her to help you what ever you need and stuff. and SHe going to lose all the money she going to owe you alot of money back.
Pls, suicide not the answer. not worth it.. if you do it she win, if you get help and find a way to get help and money owe you back and you win big time. If i took you in and I would make sure you have money, clothes, food, things you need and someomone out that help rent little and food and stuf fthat all. but I never dream of doing that to my own cousin. my nephew or my neinse ya know.
2006-07-05 06:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the obtainable difficulty with that plan is who has criminal custody of you? in case your mom has criminal custody, you won't be able to bypass to wisconsin to get emancipated because they gained't note of your dad's consent except he has criminal custody. And if he does have criminal custody, then you definately might want to easily bypass to court docket and petition to stay with him rather of your mom. you need to extremely attempt to consult a lawyer or a court docket clerk to discover o ut what your innovations are. yet be optimistic to take any documentation you've, consisting of the divorce degree with the custody order.
2016-11-15 06:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call a social worker ... like for food stamps ... and they'll direct you to who you can talk to about getting emancipated. I live in Beaver Dam, WI so I kow what I'm talking about. Good Luck and Be Well
2006-07-09 14:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by lissahinds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she is like that. she must have a reason.have a nice long talk.or,she could be overprotective.but dont commit suicide,every1 has a purpose in life,including you.dieing may mean you will never meet that special some1,or even come to terms with your cuz. in the worst case scenario,ask other relatives to take you in
2006-07-09 13:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by Muse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call a family lawyer. A guardian adlitem good help too! Use the phone book or a school counselor....Good luck.
2006-07-05 15:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by dldreher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some legal advice and a councilor...maybe one from your school. Go quick and dont let ANYONE bring you down anymore!
2006-07-09 12:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by wereinlovemnc4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to a school councerlor and tell her what's going on, she can take it from there how to help you.
2006-07-03 13:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by JBWPLGCSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋