Why do white guys who find some black girls attractive, never ask them out? Especially if the feeling may turn out to be mutual...
2006-06-25 13:52:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've dated black women. But it was only til they made the move for me. Its that whole F-ed up past thing of "master and slave" thing and feelings of guilt. Because of that some white men feel weird in themselves. So they feel the need to wait for approval of a black woman. Some black women when I look at them are more shocked and some give me a mean look. Scare the junk out of me. You know what. No-one has ever mention that maybe a master did love a slave and vice versa. Very good question and I wish there were more women like you.
2006-07-08 08:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by hiplaque 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Difficult question.
I'm sure everyone here is answering this question without being racist, I'll try to do the same.
My almost best friend is White. He says Black guys are generally believed to have a bigger sex organ (if you know what I mean). So White guys take it for granted that Black sisters are used to a bigger thing, and that gives a White guy some difficulty in approaching a Black girl.
On the other hand Black guys will have less difficulty in approaching White girls because they think they can do much better than a White guy.
Now, my white friend, has learnt a lesson. He has been dating black girls since 2003. He has learnt that girls are not actually looking for bigger d*cks, they just want to be trully loved, that's all.
I believe him.
2006-06-27 22:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by Diezel 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure about these other people , but there's a "Midwest Swang" kinda thing goin' on where I'm at. If you're dealing with mature adults, no one has a problem steppin' to the 1 they find attractive. I've seen white guys tryin' 2 holla at my Latina sistas, Black sistas, Indian, whatever they feel like doin'. Most open-minded people can handle it on both ends. Should a white cat try n spit his game at a young lady of a different race and he's turned down, he'll move on to someone else that catches his eye. On the flip side, if a young lady is approached by someone (white, black, latino, whatever) and just ain't diggin' him, she'll let him know in a manner that isn't offensive. 4 those of you missin' out on "opportunities" because of difference in race, you're only hurtin' yourself. You'll never get n e thing in life unless you ask. Worst thing that they can say is "no". Not like you haven't heard it b 4!!
2006-07-07 11:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Some ppl worry too much. What are my parents gonna say? How are my friends gonna react? What will other black ppl say about us? I'd just say mind your own business and let us go on with our lives, we arent hurting anyone!!Hell im afraid if I told a black girl she was hot and wanted to hang out shed be like, i dont date white guys...Then i'd be all sad... :(
2006-06-25 14:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by Scooter Monkey 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
because black women give off an attitude....it may not be intently...but we do....i have dated 2 white guys and that's what they told me...i think it's easier for a white dude to approach a black woman in a mixed bar, where they feel more comfortable because if the black girl is already at a spot like that...then the dude knows that she is open to inter-racial dating...
2006-06-25 16:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by coffy812 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
thats where white men and black men generally are different...most white guys are laid back and let things happen as they come..while most black men are up in your face...i say most in both races not to offend or stereotype anyone..just a fact..i find it easier to approach a black woman that a white woman
2006-07-05 16:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe they are shy. i went out with a few black girls before but mostly i found out they liked me first. Maybe the girl should ask out the guy if they like them.
2006-06-25 13:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are afraid that you like black men more, you kinda just gotta tell them you would do them, then they open up.
2006-06-25 13:57:07 · answer #8 · answered by yepimaloser 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
intimidation... the black woman sterotype. who cares, though. its not tru. i attract lots of white guys.. but if you arent that sterotype, which is really annoying at times, then youll be alright. they do like blk women, i do not care what enyone says
2006-06-25 19:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
scared --some black girls are cold
r the just don't believe the that she would like em
2006-06-25 13:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by ImaGman 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋