Hey all, so yesterday was my b-day and my boyfriend of almost 2 months gave me a dozen pink roses($25) and an american Eagle Outfitters gift card for $75. The problem is i am having a real problem with accpeting all of this because it seems like he spent so much on me. I thanked himover and over again but still I feel bad! What should i do......just be greatful for it or contiunue ffeling bad about it and confront him about it????!!!
2006-06-25 13:16:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be grateful hon, he obviously cares about you and its his choice that he has given you this gift! Be happy! :)
2006-06-25 13:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. you are the only woman i know who looks a gift horse in the mouth. his spending that much on you is was of saying that he still finds you appealing and worth spending money on. so thank him! if u still feel guilty, take him out to dinner and a movie. and dont let him pay. that way you will feel less guilty and he doesnt feel like all his gifts are being taken for granted.
2006-06-25 13:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by double0agent2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It made him happy to give those things to you. You should be happy to accept them.
Why would you want to "confront" him? That's an aggressive way to react to a gift.
Confronting is for when boyfriends forget birthdays not when they remember them and give you fabulous gifts!
Enjoy it and quit feeling like you don't deserve it. Your boyfriend obviously thinks that you are worth it. Enjoy!
2006-06-25 13:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by beckini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is go shopping get you a nice outfit something a little sexy and hope he tells you how good you look in it..
He would not have got it if he didn't want you to have it...Its a gift you don't owe him anything...
2006-06-25 13:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thank you should accept it. If he spent that much money on you after 2 months he really likes you. You should stick with him sounds like to me he's a gentlemen.
2006-06-25 13:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by Kayla Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy with it he obviously likes you a lot and wants to show you. Try not to make to long of a reaction to this or he will think you don't like it and feel special.
2006-06-25 13:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by ur_cutie21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes sweet, be happy he does that. dont feel bad about because all they want to do is make you happy with giving you things. so make them happy by being happy over the gifts.
2006-06-25 13:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by crank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yake the gift you insecure whimp. It's an insult to any guy to reject a gift.
2006-06-25 13:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately be thankful. tell him he didnt have to do so much. go to american eagle and get him a shirt or something and tell him you saw this when you were there and couldnt help but get it for him because it reminds you so much of him.
2006-06-25 13:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by elemenopee. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a gift. Accept it. If you really feel like you owe him something, then figure out what you can do for him in return.
2006-06-25 13:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋