Me n my b/f been goin out 4 8 months. 2 months lata he cheated on me wit my friend Aviana! Lata n da day him n Aviana standin n talkin 2gether. Wen she left me n him started talkin n he told me his plan was 2 go wit her, *** her, den break up wit her n go wit me. Yes I thought all dat stuff was dumb! Neways he told me he's sorry n dat he was goin 2 break up wit her. Da next day we ended up goin back out n promised we would 4get all dat eva happened n he told me dat if I did the same to him, he would undastand and won't break up with me. Of course I will neva 4get bout dat n I'm not big on cheatin. Bout 2 months afta dat happened he been bringin her name up n now it's been 5 months. Sometimes I would pretend 2 b mean 2 him n he would b like hmmm well since ur bein mean 2, I guess I gotta call my otha girl Aviana n she'll b nice 2 me and I kno he b playin. Dis happens ALOT n i'm tired of it! I told him bout it n all he says is i'm just playin y r u takin it serious. What should I do?
2006-06-25 13:09:46 · 17 answers · asked by TS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he may be still hung up on her.
2006-06-25 13:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should get out of that relationship personally, but I know how it is. I stayed with a guy like that for along time and it eventually ended. Just dont put up with that crap. Sit down talk to him and tell him how u feel about the situation. If he doesnt listen then get out of it. Most of the time though guys do that stuff to get to you cause they know it does. Then again he could still be messing around with her. Check it out.
2006-06-25 20:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kayla Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y would u stay with some one like that.once a cheat always a cheat.. he is not going to stop till u put yo foot down or leave him... u derserve better then what u going through find u some one else.. it may hurt but u will see that later u made the right choice fo u
2006-06-25 20:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its obvious enough that he is playing with u,he said "I'm just playin y ru taking it serious" ,he is obviously immature and still wana go out with Aviana.And just think about it,why is he doing that to u for? if he loves u why would he mentioned about his ex often? better find sumbody who is a lot better than him
2006-06-25 21:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need a new friend that will have you on his mind this guy don't seem to be all he cracked up to be usually when they act like that he is too full of himself. you need to make up a name in your past and he will go crazy ...but stop the madness move on he's living foul....
2006-06-25 20:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by classy chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dump him! He's seriously hung up on her! And it's like he's using her and saying he would go back 2 her so that u would stop being mad @ him! I wouldn't even have gone out wit him in the !st place!
2006-06-25 20:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by agirluwant2know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you because you don't know proper English. You should forget about little boys for a while and learn how to spell.
2006-06-25 20:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by yogazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, why r u going after him! leave him alone and let him do any nonsense he wants to.
you can have better boy friends. He's not good 4 u. nothing can make him good! go ur own way!
2006-06-25 20:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by Betsy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl sorry to say this but he is two playing ya i would get over him and date some one better that way you have a hottie and he is jelouse 2 score
2006-06-25 20:15:39 · answer #9 · answered by shimmeringfallenangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl bye! you have got to be kidding!
he still wants her, so why don't you just move around?
get with yourself, find out why you're willing to settle, then just maybe you'll be able to deal with someone else.
2006-06-25 20:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋