Have you ever wanted sex so bad, and had been seeing this girl for a couple of weeks, totally want to do each other, and when the time finally comes, your so nervous about performing right, you have a hard time keeping it up??
2006-06-25 12:57:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I honestly haven't, but it does happen, and it is every guys nightmare, so cut your boy some slack and try it again when the pressure has been lifted from that bad experience.
I wish you the best
2006-06-25 13:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by rykkardo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's perfectly normal for guys. If we dont have sex for a long time it's natural for us to have performance problems. That's why its healthy and good for us to have sex all the time.
2006-06-25 20:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called "performance anxiety". its a consequence to overthinking things. it can also be brought about by overstimulation (even visual).
the best approach is to breathe fully, do something to relax & take it easy. some people relax by massaging each others neck & shoulders, maybe a little alcohol to unwind, & slow foreplay.
experiment, practice & enjoy! it doesn't last forever! breathe deep & drink lots of water. do your vitamins! take a bath or shower together. talk.
2006-06-25 20:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by Silvaworks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called stage fright. It happens to some guys who may be shy at first about "baring all". It won't last long. If it does then the guy may have something medically wrong.
2006-06-25 20:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by vertigo 0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That can happen to any guy at any time - it's completely normal.
Performance anxiety can be very stressful for a guy and cause impotence... and more worrying, which can make the impotence even worse!
Guys are just people too. :)
2006-06-25 20:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by bigbadwolfe_2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i haven't experienced any performance problems to date.
2006-06-25 20:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by koolhand_kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well either they are all supermen or they havent truly had this experiance the answer is yes EVERY MAN WILL HAVE THIS PROBLEMAT LEAST ONCE its like asking a guy if he jerks off......we all kbnow we do it,.... but ask him in front of his woman and he 96% of the time turn red and deny it
2006-06-25 20:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Bert W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell ya, the only way to get over that is to masurbate before, so when you both finally get togethor you wont be nervous
2006-06-25 20:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by kispioxman2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never happen to me........but the goood thing about sex is you can always treat it like the first time. good luck
2006-06-25 20:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by talldkhansum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. NOT a problem at all. Other things, yes, keeping it up, no. ;)
2006-06-25 19:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋