I told the guy i love i loved him and naw he acts weird all stuff do u think he doesnt love me.
GOD bless you.
2006-06-25 12:54:40 · 19 answers · asked by Jetta C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe because he doesn't love you - maybe he just was getting to know you, liked you a lot & was enjoying your company & now you've put pressure on him to speed up his emotions which he isn't ready to do... so he feels he has to either jump in head first or back away completely and he's not sure which he really wants to do.
Why'd you tell him you love him so soon??
2006-06-25 12:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by bigbadwolfe_2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unrequited love hurts. He doesn't feel the same way and your longing is not reciprocated. So you had a desire that goes unfulfilled and you wonder if it would have been better not to have that desire in the first place. Maybe. Life would be so much easier if we could all just let go of such things and move on to someone that did return our love. I know I blew quite a few great opportunities in high school being blind like that... Love is not just blind - it's stupid too.
2006-06-26 12:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cheshire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are different animals. The best thing to do is ask him. It is better to know why he is behaving strangley. Ex. "Bill, I told you the other day how I feel about you and I feel that your behavior towards me has changed since then. DId I make you uncomfortable? If so, why?"
He may not have been having the ame feelings towards you, or maybe not the same goals for the relationship. If so, better to have it out in the open.
2006-06-25 20:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Stephiony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Love' can be a confusing concept. People sense they want 'it' but in reality probably couldn't define 'it'; it's mysterious. When you spoke of 'love' I'll bet you didn't even understand what you were 'really' saying nor did he fully grasp what he should be feeling. TRUST ME, leave 'love' for later in your life when you're more capable of grasping the concept. Go to school and enrich your economic potentials first AND THEN tell the right person you love them. It'll feel right when it IS rigtht and you won't be confused by anything. Hey, when it IS right it FEELS right...
2006-06-25 20:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by Big O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be he doesn't know how to handle having someone love him. Acting weird is a sure sign of it. Did he respond with anything when you told him ?? It may bother you now however, if this is the case, handle with care, he's just as fragile as you !!!
Good luck.
2006-06-25 20:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's exactly what I think, Jetta. Love does hurt in some ways, at times. But you haven't known the real hurt it could cause, until you've been betrayed, dumped and emotionally hurt by the one you love, or tried to dump, who loved you. Oh no, you've haven't been through it like I had, 2 years ago.
2006-06-25 19:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could just be scared. Give him some time to think about what you said. And don't pressure him to say it back. If nothing else you were honest about your feelings. When it's time, he'll be honest with you as well. The worst thing you could do is force the issue. Don't worry, he'll come around. Just be patient.
2006-06-25 19:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by ladyrn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does, and maybe he doesn't. It may be kinda overwhelming 4 him, and that's why he's acting all weird. If he does love u back, it won't last 2 long.
P.S. Sorry, I meant the weirdness won't last long.
2006-06-25 19:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Bubbles*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes not ready for that kind of commitment in his life yet especially if you two only just met and only just started going out. Maybe he thinks your taking it to fast sit down and talk with him about it
2006-06-25 20:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by oo0_krissy_0oo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but to tell u the truth yeah he don't like u. but forget about him go get a new one and better. if not time will come and it will be a graet one.
Love ya and Be happy!!!
julie
2006-06-25 20:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by Julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋