The guy I was in love with left me about 6 months ago, and I think I’m ready for another relationship. Here's the problem... I don't know how to get guys to like me? With my ex we just looked at each other and then it just went from there. I tired of being lonely. I really want a boyfriend.
I'm not willing to meet people on-line or use some dating service.
2006-06-25 12:52:35 · 13 answers · asked by loveismagic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have confidence dear -- if you are ready than do not rush it. Just be yourself and the guys will appreciate that versus a shallow phony-- they are everywhere! First- a little hint-- find a couple of guys that you find that are attractive-- then start conversations with all of them--asking them things about them-- what they think and feel about different things. The shallow guys will be annoyed and blow you off-- the decent guys will find that your interest in them as a compliment. Try it and see how that works. Also ask around about them too. Do not make any commitments to go out with any of them until you narrowed the choices down to one or two. By that time I feel you will kn ow who those guys that are worth your time will be and who is not.
2006-06-25 13:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by azguitar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be yourself. its simple, prolly not a point favorite but just be out there wit a mas group of people and someone will notice. dats what i notice everytime i talk to girls. im will all my friends(girls and homies) and also them. then ya fools will all hang out as one big group do sumthing dumb and start from there. i have a story i can tell ya'lls but maybe another time. hope this helps which i think maybe
2006-06-25 19:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by M.P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little picky arent we? Try getting out of the house and doing something were there alot of people are at like the pool or something. Try not to seem so desperate though
2006-06-25 19:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by oo0_krissy_0oo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with yr girlfriends once a wk and meet new ppl. this will allow you to progress back into the single life. then start having a good look aroun when your more comfortable and confident
2006-06-25 19:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel i am having the same problem with the ladies but i've never had a gf. but hopefully everything goes alright i'd just go up and talk to them
2006-06-25 19:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by favre_84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the bar, get drunk..and take one home......dont foget the protection. i cannt garranty youll find love but, you can get some love that night .......and that should help with the lonely feeling and the need for someone. happy hunting
2006-06-25 20:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by talldkhansum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firs wear something sexy when yo gonna looking for boy 2. be nature, 3 be boss...
2006-06-25 19:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by tsoltejivs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do is just kick back and let love come to you in it own time.i have been waiting for 4 years know and i know it well happen soon but dont rush in to it ok.
2006-06-25 19:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i m looking 4 a serious relationship u intersted
2006-06-25 19:59:00 · answer #9 · answered by LOST 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and go out with group of friends and just meet people. but most important of all be yourself.
2006-06-25 19:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋