lol thats a stupid question. but im one of those guys that dosent have the balls to go up to a girl and ask her out. and im in high school too wich is even worse. but anyways can someone give me some pointers on how to make a girl like me or become closer. i know someone has some good pointers out there.
2006-06-25 12:50:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there is a girl that you like right now and you want her to like you back then just become god friends, flirt, and then ask her out, or at least let her know how you feel about her. Trust me, we are looking for more guys who will actually ask the girl out before we have to do it are selves. If you don't have someone in mind, just wait, i know it's not what you want to hear but it's true. she will come along sooner then you think.
2006-06-25 12:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by loveismagic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. You can't make a girl like you (unless you have lots of cash -- but then it would not be true love, but the love of money), a girl will eventually like you for the person that you are and the way that you behave (i.e. PERSONALITY).
If you are shy around girls, do not think about trying to "conquer" them by asking her out as if it is a task, just be yourself around her and have conversation. Talk to her about general stuff, and let her talk, find out what she likes and talk about that, let her know through your conversation that you are interested in her as a person, for her mind, thoughts, and what she says and likes, rather than just because she has a nice body.
There is nothing wrong with complimenting her smile or the outfit she has on, just don;t make it seem overtly that you are hitting on her. As you talk with her you may find out more of what she likes, and then you can suggest the two of you engage in that activity. If she mentions that she likes a certain movie that is out and she has not seen it, you can suggest that the two of you see it together. The worst thing that can happen is that she says no, but that is not the end of the world. Continue to be friendly with her and you two may become friends and perhaps over time she may grow to like you, if not you can still be amiable and still seek other girls who may be interested in you.
Patients and perseverance will win out in the long run. Plus as you take the time to know more about the women you speak you, you truly learn if they are possibly the one for you and more than just a nice bod and a pretty face.
2006-06-25 20:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u cant MAKE a girl like u. just be urself. if she doesnt like it then she is NOT worth ur time. i bet u have the balls but sometimes its hard i know but u have to do what u have to do. just walk up to her and ask her out.
2006-06-25 21:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one, you cant make a girl like you! And for two, you have to start talking to girls, the more you talk and mingle, the more girls are going to start liking you back.
2006-06-25 19:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by ~Lindsey~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just be ur self do u like # 24?
2006-06-25 19:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by elizabeth c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me i like a guy to be his self.don't try to be somebody your not,try being her friend first then let it go from there
2006-06-25 19:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by BIG MOMMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her a lot then ask her out.
2006-06-29 18:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by orlandocrazy456 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self
2006-06-25 20:44:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋