=iam 13 and pregnant what should i do and my boyfriend left me?

Answer 1

Wow... so young to be pregnant. Find someone you can trust, someone that will be there for you all the way. And if you need help, go to Planned Parenthood. They might be able to find someone that you can talk to about it, seeing as though you are young and not yet mature enough to handle everything that goes with being pregnant.

Answer 2

I few of my friends have been through the same thing(Not quite as young). Although you are young you have already made a big decision to have sex at an early age. Now you have many more big decisions to make. I'm not here to tell you what to do but simply to give you advice! There are many options out there for you, I suggest you do some serious homework. There is always the option of abortion, or adoption(outside or in the family) and of course keeping the baby. It is absolutely up to you. Make sure to look into all options first before making decisions. Remember you will have to live with your decisions for the rest of your life. Another word of advice you need a good support system. That will make things a little easier.
Hope things work out for you!

Answer 3

Go tell your mother right now. It won't get any better keeping it from her. You need her help and support more now then ever. And she will be the only person you will Be able to trust. Your going to have to understand that she will be devastated when she hears and she will be very hurt and torn emotionally, but it's because your her baby having a baby.Don't just go get an abortion. First of all most places won't give you one anyway because your a minor. So your going to have to tell her. Don't ever let some guy no matter how cute he is ever talk you into having sex again. Be stronger and have more self worth, hold your head high and tell them , NO. Your not ready and when you are it's going to be the right time for you { like in about 5-10 more years if necessary}. Your worth so much more then that . Be proud of who you are and respect yourself and once you do that the good guys will want to date you for that reason and not just for sex.

Answer 4

That's a very complex question that should NOT be answered by ANYONE on a website. You need to seek professional advice. Depending on where you live there could be a Planned Parenthood that could help you decide whether abortion, or adoption or keeping the child for yourself is the best answer for you. Maybe you could talk to your parents for help. Even if you just open the Phone book and go to the social services section would be better than any biased information you might find on these responses.
Good luck.

Answer 5

It is really sad that you are pregnant at thirteen. What is even sadder is that a large number of people are advising you to mess up your mind and MURDER a child on top of it.

You should talk to your parents about it and see if they would be willing to help you raise this CHILD. If not, give the CHILD up for adoption. Remember CHILD, the CHILD growing within you has to trust you a CHILD for HIM/HER to see CHILDHOOD. This is why CHILDREN should not have sex.There is no such thing as SAFE SEX. Look at the choices that you have at this time. You can choose to listen to the majority of Irresponsible IDIOTS out there who will tell you to MURDER a CHILD, thirteen years younger than yourself or put HIM/HER up for adoption.

Please don't make two mistakes. And for the boyfriend who left, child support payments will be attached. Do the responsible thing. I know it is hard, but MURDER is not the answer. Your children grow up and they bring heartache and joy. This child may be the best thing that ever happened to you. It may make you a responsible person when you struggle and be accountable for your decision to have sex so young. Hold you head up high and go against the grain. Don't be normal or popular, be right.

My prayers are with you. (BTW- If your parents aborted you, they would not have to deal with this problem. I bet you'll find that they may be disappointed, but are glad that you are alive.)

Answer 6

First off see and Doctor and makes sure everything is OK with you. Abortion is not always the answer, I know people that have had them and it has haunted them later on in life. Tell you parents if you have not all ready.

Also depending on his age he may be in legal trouble. Even if he is under 18 some states say that you person of 13 is not at a age to give consent to have sex.

My only other advice is to pray to God for guidance.

Answer 7

I would talk to you parents about this. Being that you are waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too young to have a baby, I would consider an terminating the pregnancy or giving the baby up for adoption. I am not trying to demean you but you are practically a baby yourself. A child (when you look back at this in 10 years, you will agree with me that you were a child( having a child is no good to either of you.

Answer 8

First off you shouldn't have been having sex at such a young age. But, it's obviously to late for that. What you need to do is tell your parents. You don't need to have an abortion because if you hadn't been doing what you were doing you wouldn't have gotten pregnant in the first place. Don't kill the baby just because you made the wrong choices. It didn't ask for any of this. I'm very disappointed in you.

Answer 9

i am 14 and not pregnant. i kan throw that up in your face because you did it. please dont have an abortion. thelittle baby is innocent. think about it, youre killing you own baby. and when the time come where you want kids-you may not be able to have them. no matter what have your baby and treat it good. i was to get pregnant. i would have had my baby. Plz dont kill the baby. Have it and take care of it, or at least have it and let your mom take care of it. she may be like im not taking care of it you shouldnt have went out there having sex-you shoulda kept your legs closed and all of that but i guarantee something so sweet and cunning as a new babyshe would change her mind as soon as she see's her grandbaby because the baby didnt ask to come here. i know i'm only 14 but i could get pregnant easy. but its called safe sex and you probably did have safe sex but things happen but dont worry. just have the baby. Plz have the baby

Answer 10

You need to tell a responsible adult and get to a doctor. How old is the father? You need medical attention. If you plan on carrying the baby to term then you need prenatal care if you dont then you need to terminate asap.
If you are going to carry it to term then please consider adoption. Give your baby the gift of loving , adult parents and give yourself the gift of finishing your childhood. Remember one mistake doesn't have to ruin your life and your child's life as long as you learn from it. Also just b/c you are not a virgin doesn't mean you have to have sex in the future. Start over and this time wait until you are ready emotionally, physically , maturity wise and age wise before you enter into a physical relationship with anyone.
GET MEDICAL HELP AND TALK TO YOUR PARENTS.