what if your fat and you like a girl but she dosent like you!?

Question

i like a girl and im fat and im working out just for her but i think by the time im like in good shape then i wont be able to see her no more!

Answer 1

keep working out, its good for your heath and will help with the ladys. but talk to her, maybe she likes you even how you are now, never know.

Answer 2

If she's going to look down on you because you're fat, she's not good enough for you. She should like you for the person you are.

You should change your appearance to please YOURSELF, not to win her, though I agree, being slimmer and fitter will make you more attractive to all girls.

You should lose the weight because it will make you healthier and happier.

There will always be girls you are interested in that aren't mutually interested. This would be true even if you were thin and gorgeous, so accept that maybe this isn't the right girl. There are plenty out there, you'll find someone right.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

You should be working out for yourself, not for other people. The thing girls like most in guys is confidence, and if you look good, you feel good about yourself. They go together.

Also, a girl who only likes people because of how they look, not who they are, is shallow and you are better off without her. Find a girl who likes YOU and take care of your body, and you will be happier than you ever would have been with the shallow girl.

Answer 5

You can't make someone like you. The fact that you are working out "for HER' I find disturbing because she may not like you if you're a buff babelicious hunk. So work out for yourself AND for reasons that would make you feel more qualified for ALL hotties. But do not obsess over this chick - you have absolutely NO guarantee of winning her over even if and when you reach your fitness goals. Do it to feel better about yourself - then you will be more likely to have others like you.

Answer 6

Tha funny thing is that im in the same postion as u, im tryin to lose weight and get the girl i dream of & think shes hot

Answer 7

Well it might not feel like it, but it is easier to be a fat guy than a fat girl in this society. Girls will date you if you are fat...if she likes you.

Answer 8

Well buddy, why don't you say it upfront to your girl? If she really cares, she'd be there for you - else she'd still remember the times you were fat even if you manage to get together later.

Answer 9

Man if she like that.. judgemental about fat but not your personality.. she isnt worth it..
but if you like her MUCHO. Start working out and confident in what you do..
aright bro good luck

Answer 10

WHO CARES IF YOUR FAT, IF SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU JUST BECAUSE OF THAT THEN GO LIKE SOMEBODY ELSE. WHAT IF YOU LOOSE WIEGHT THEN YOU GUYS START DATEING THEN THEY OPEN A REALLY GOOD BUFFET BY YOUR HOUSE SO YOU EAT THERE AND GAIN THE WIEGHT BACK THEN SHE LEAVES YOU CUZ YOUR FAT AND THEN YOUR UNHAPPY AND MAD...FIND SOMEONE THAT LIKES YOU FOR WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE NOW NOT FOR WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE IN SIX MONTHS, THATS DUMB