im sad and deprssed!! i dont know what to do ... she is my best cousin ever!!
i was with her all the time but her mother asked me to leave, she wants me to relax at home !! i dont know ,,, she is 20 years old!
2006-06-25 12:07:09 · 15 answers · asked by Lona aa 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
im Shoked!! i cant believe what is happenening! i was with her yesterday and she was great!! and now she is gonna die! as simple as that !
2006-06-25 12:10:18 · update #1
im 21 years old
2006-06-25 12:18:02 · update #2
she died yesterday :(
2006-06-28 09:57:18 · update #3
I wanna thank everybody for his/her sweet words,,, it really helped me, but i really cant choose the best answer, ill be unfair because each one of u has written the best answer .. thank you very much.. i really appreciate that !!
ill put this Q for Voting
thanks alot
2006-06-28 10:03:04 · update #4
Just pray sweetie....Remember your cousin and all the good times that y'all had together...I know that it's hard but try not to be too sad, your cousin wouldn't want that....If you can't relax @ home ask your cousin's mother if there is anything that she needs help with or that you could do to help her during this time...
2006-06-25 12:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by kuntry_guhl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you're sad, and depressed. She's 20, how old are you? Not that makes much difference. All you can do is, pray, let the hospital do what they can, have a star named after her, do something in memory/honor of her- you should do all of the above. But I really recommend the star thing. You know when her bd is, right? Type into your browser, Name a star (although some times the site emails people), get out your credit card, or write a check, fill out the needed info, and give the papers to your aunt or mother, when they (the papers) come to you in the mail. I did it, when my father passed on. Gave my mother, the papers.
2006-06-25 12:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, first, i am so sorry! i myself was in a coma and the dr. told my family that i would die, but as you can see , i am talking to you right now, i was 26 at the time. please do not give up on your cousin , if you belive in GOD, now is the time to pray and leave this in the hands of the LORD. doctors do not know everything and i am proof that a mirical can happen to anyone.i did have some short term memory loss for about a year after, but i am fine now, and even work as an emergency medical tech.i see miricals all the time:) i will pray for your cousin right now ok. good luck and may GOD BLESS.
2006-06-25 12:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by reann4239 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found, even though I'm not a very religious person, that prayer really does work, it's calming and you feel like a burden has been lifted off your shoulders. If you don't pray, try meditation. sit, breath deep, and it will calm you, when your cousin needs you, you will be there. Just love her and be there for her. Tell her mother you feel the need to be there, but don't be so emotionally out of it that she has to tell you to go home and relax. my hopes and prayers go out for your cousin and family
2006-06-25 12:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by qukkky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww.. I'm so sorry...
There is nothing much you can do. You can talk to her, and you don't even need to be by her bedside to do that. Say your goodbyes, and thank her for all the great times you had together. Her mother wants what's best for you, and being around dying people is probably not the best thing to do when you are so young. I'm really sorry you have to go through this.
2006-06-25 12:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by brand_new_monkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband had a brain aneurism/ bleeding in the brain almost 9 yrs ago and he was also in a coma for a while, but it just wasn't his time to go and he survived. There's still hope, don't give up on her. Pray. She could survive and be ok. I know how you feel and I will pray for her and for your whole family.
2006-06-25 12:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by blue-eyez76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assumed that too, I even gave it as an answer to a diverse question on right here. He did take a foul whack to the top by potential of Mad would did no longer he? I reckon he will die, and then "Keef" will circulate away to circulate and stay with Rosie, Demi and Aleesha! Darren will stay with break of day and summer season
2016-12-13 18:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for what you are going through.
Just pray, pray with a strong faith, believe that your prayer will be answered, and God could help her.
Just keep Faith and Hope.
2006-06-25 12:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by nadira456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing that you can do. Just remember all the good times that you had with her and celebrate her life and mourn the loss. If the doctors have offered no hope, then all you can do is wait.
2006-06-25 12:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by brittme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure whether you're religious at all but prayer really works. Anything is possible have some faith. God Bless!
2006-06-25 12:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by Crazy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋