How do you know if the person is the one your to marry?
2006-06-25 11:57:04 · 11 answers · asked by mountaingirl88 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The most important thing in this case is you. You have to ask yourself, "are you ready for marriage?". Most people do more planning for the wedding that they do for marriage. They'll fuss over the bridal registry, invitations, location, religion, and WHO is gonna be invited. But ask yourself.... what do you want for you? Have you accomplished your goals...Are you happy with your job and your money, do you have YOUR world in order? Marriage simply a legal contract bringing two people together. Nothing is gonna change once your married; sex isn't magically gonna get better or more frequent, all the bad habits of the other person aren't going to suddenly go away and those fights aren't gonna be more understanding now that you're married. If your credit sucks... it screws BOTH of you up. If you hate your job... then the financial burden is on you both. Be happy with you...Have your affairs in order and enjoy the other person and the times you have together. NOTHING IS CERTAIN!!! and right now the percentage of divorce is over 56%. and if the couple is under 25...the percentage is 80%. PLAN PLAN PLAN! If you were handed a parachute and told to jump out of an airplane...but you have a 56% chance that your chute would open...would you take that gamble?
2006-06-26 06:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by artist1974 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to every really know if someone is the "one", all you can know is if the person makes you happy, can you see the two of you growing together and sharing a life with one another, does the person really care about you and you about them and finally but most importantly are you yourself around this person do they know the real you. If you can say yes to these questions then you are probably with the one you want to marry.
2006-06-25 12:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by girlnextdoor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're all you think about. If just thinking about them makes you happy, makes you feel good inside. If you smile at all the little things. You know it's it.
2006-06-25 12:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by benpfaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will be the only person that you think about night and day.
2006-06-25 12:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta go with your gut... There are no guarantees, but if you never take a risk you can't succeed.
2006-06-25 12:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by wolf1230pack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing youll be inlove and feel like you can never live without them. but the thing is does she feel the same for you.
2006-06-25 12:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are the opposite of you then they are the right one
2006-06-25 12:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by yogilove2k7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to trust your gut. there is no magical equation that will point you to happiness. and there is nobody else that can tell you what will make you happy. you have to trust yourself.
2006-06-25 12:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't imange your life without that person
2006-06-26 06:22:37 · answer #9 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you automatically know
2006-06-25 12:06:47 · answer #10 · answered by MsJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋