How come I still haven't found the right girl?

Question

I'm still looking for a girlfriend after all these years, I'm not really too ugly, I've become a lot more outgoing, I have a good circle of friends around me, I go out on the town regualary, and I'm always up for a laugh. Yet still I find my search in vain. Why?

Answer 1

because you haven't met me *wink*

Answer 2

Because you want to meet her too much, that gives off vibes of desperation which puts women off. A woman wants to feel that you think she's special not that you'd settle for anyone.
You don't sound very old to me and until you reach 35 I wouldn't even start to worry.

Once you stop looking so hard and just enjoy yourself and meeting people you will be a lot more attractive to women as you wont appear desperate and she will just appear in your life.
Most people find "the one" when they stop searching to quote an old phrase "a watched kettle never boils"

Answer 3

Just a thought: Maybe your idea of "right" is wrong. We all get an ideal in our heads, but can anyone really live up to that? Not only that, but could it be that what you think you are looking for is not really what you want or need? I would suggest that you step back and rid yourself of at least some of your preconceived notions and see if you don't get a better result. Happy hunting!

Answer 4

you do not find your search criteria
how you are looking
what you say
where you go to find these women
do not go to bars
night clubs ect..
you must find women in there "natural" state
that is where they are not fully dolled up and acting pretentious
you et to see them as they really are with their guard down
you get a better perspective of them too
you lack confidence too
that shows in your post
you have to cure that 100% before asking any girl out
and once you do be prepared for baggage
i have yet to meet any gril / women that didn't come with some sort of baggage brough on by ex husbands/ BF ect...

you have been warned

Answer 5

There's no way to know the exact answer. You have to keep your eyes open though. Make sure you give everyone a chance even if you think they are not your type. They might be the one for you and you are too buisy looking in other directions.
Good Luck!

Answer 6

That question is probably asked and wondered by millions of people all over the world, everyday. Maybe the "one" isn't around where you live. Plus, everyone has different types, looks, and personality wise.

Answer 7

I think you're worrying too much. Let it come to you, when the time is right you'll know. Its just like when you're looking for something you've lost...if you search to hard you'll never find it, or its right under your nose but you havent taken the time to see it. Good luck

Answer 8

Pssst, over here. No, to your right. No, your other right.

I'm behind the redhead in the fishnet stockings. No, not that one - the one with the smaller bosom.

All right, you may see me soon enough. I understand you will be distracted by those big breasted women first.

I know you will find me, eventually?

Answer 9

I hate to say it but some people do get old, die alone and get eaten by dogs because they never found a partner. It's life.

Surely better to be single than in a crappy relationship though?

Answer 10

all i know is that when 'finding' partners they usually move away from you because your looking.. as soon as you stop you get a chance to see those who are looking for you.. use them as ur options not who u consider attractive in ur circle of friends or who u meet off the street, etc.. stop lookin

Answer 11

I feel like everyone has another person to complete them. Sound corny, maybe. But, when you find the right person it is the best. I don't think it can be rushed . When you stop looking that is when it happens and then right under your nose is the right person...Good Luck.