How to write notes for the benefit of surviving family members?

Answer 1

It sounds to me that you are the one they'll be surviving ...
If it were me, I'd consider sharing some fond memories ... feelings they may not be aware that I've had ... apologies I may be owing them ... and reminding them of the hope I hold dear ...

An Inheritance You Can Count On
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2004/10/1/article_01.htm

Or, depending on the individual, I might choose to enclose ...

When Someone You Love Dies
http://www.watchtower.org/library/we/index.htm

Life in a Peaceful New World
http://www.watchtower.org/library/t15/peaceful.htm

Should You Be Afraid of Death?
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2002/6/1/article_01.htm

Will the Dead Live Again?
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2005/5/1/article_01.htm

Is There Life After Death?
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2001/7/15/article_01.htm

Sincerely,
"Make Sure of All things; Hold Fast to what is Fine!"
1 Thessalonians 5:21

Answer 2

Your question is pretty vague. What kinds of notes? What do you mean by "surviving family members"? Is this something that you want them to read after your death?

Answer 3

Hey Marc-
It's really considerate that you want to console someone that has lost a loved one. One phrase I always use from one of my favorite police shows is, "I'm so sorry for your loss." Then I always wish them, "Peace be with you..."
If you feel it would be appropriate to share a favorite memory, include that as well. But brevity is often appreciated at times like these. Offer your support with sincere intent. You're a good person.

Answer 4

I always like to share a favourite memory involving the deceased.

Answer 5

Not sure what you mean, but you could write 'I'm sorry for your loss'.