If i messed with other famales or had a relationship with them but i was with my boyfriend and did not tell him?
2006-06-25 10:22:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i have been with him for 4 yrs
2006-06-25 10:22:43 · update #1
yep, its cheating
2006-06-25 10:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Krissy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time when don't tell our loved ones about someone we have something to hide. If you can't talk open and honestly w/ your man then how do you expect your relationship to grow? Maybe you could bring up the girl on girl issue as a joke, and feel out his reaction. Why after 4 years would you want to hide this from him? Don't be a cheater.
2006-06-25 17:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by LadyRedWild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm... I would say yes it is... I've always felt that cheating is worse if there are feelings involved, and if u want a relationship with someone else, male or female, then yeah its cheating. The issue is however, how would he react if he found out? Maybe you know he wouldnt be ok with it, so you want to hide it then...
2006-06-25 17:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by aoshi_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question. How would I feel if I found out my boyfriend just "Fool's" around with his female friends? (Or even male friends)
Would you believe him if he says it wasn't cheating as long as they were friends? Or as long as he didn't consider them lovers?
Just friends with benefits if that is a clear way to put it ?
And in my personally opinion, yes it is cheating.Simple as that.
2006-06-25 17:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by ilga6wah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating...You stay with one person or play the field.You don't commit to a guy for years and go out on him.It would be the same if he did it to you.
2006-06-25 17:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...yes sorry but male or female any act with another person while your currently with someone else is considered cheating.
I think it is time to rethink your relationship with oyur boy friend.
2006-06-25 17:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by princessdawn1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is still cheating no matter who it is with or what sex it is with. If you do not want to be with your boyfrind, leave him. If you want to explore your lesbian side, either invite him in, or leave him. You cannot have your ice cream and have the toppings on the side.
2006-06-25 17:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by Almighty Malachi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would be cheating, choose between your boyfriend or the other females, you can't have both.
2006-06-25 17:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's is cheating, being with anyone else is cheating. Talk to him about, he may be open with it and want to be the meat in the sandwhich.
2006-06-25 17:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by James B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would it be cheating if he messed around with other men and didn't tell you?
YES. F*CK YES.
2006-06-25 17:36:55 · answer #10 · answered by old_man_aphid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay or straight cheating applies to them both.
2006-06-25 17:31:30 · answer #11 · answered by funkymonkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋